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3 hours ago, Bri2020 said:

I do have a soft chamise that drapes to my hips that I love for sleeping

 

I have something like that, too. I used to just sleep in underwear, hated wearing more than that. But once I tried wearing that to bed I was pretty well hooked. I just love anything drapey, or strappy, or dress-like. Only problem is, it makes me hate having to get up in the morning all the more!

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5 hours ago, Bri2020 said:

I can't sleep with any long legged bottoms though.  I do have a soft chamise that drapes to my hips that I love for sleeping purposes.  https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B083SJD919/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o09_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

I do something similar, but go to the flannel nightgowns in colder weather.  Sometimes I hate to get dressed in the morning.

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6 hours ago, Bri2020 said:

So my wife bought me my first womens clothes not even knowing what was to come.

 

I have pajamas like that too, but that's strictly a warm-weather thing. My other pajamas are cozy and suitable for cuddling on the couch. They're actually a little too warm to use the stove in though, so I'm going to suffer if I wear them while I cook. All-Day pajamas for my wife and I isn't super-unusual for a lazy Sunday if we're not planning to leave the house.

 

5 hours ago, Bri2020 said:

I'm not sure if I just violated rules so reporting myself

 

I checked the link and I think it's fine, but I left the report open to see if any of the other mods object.

 

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7 hours ago, Drayse said:
7 hours ago, Bri2020 said:

 

Wait, people are wearing pajamas? I feel like I'm lacking culture all of a sudden....

Lol. I only reason I sleep in pjs is my wife though she gave me a hard no on getting a chemise. 
 


 

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Went  shopping at Walmart. Lots of bargains! Bought a complete wardrobe. The outside is starting to come into synch with the inside. I can easily see dressing this way every day around the house. It will take a bit of confidence to step out the door and march into the world looking like this. 

 

All those ladies who have posted about unkind words from strangers. You are so brave! You give me courage!

 

Deep breaths!

 

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1 hour ago, Jani said:

You look good @AgnesBardsie!  Very tasteful.

There were so many bargains I couldn't resist. I have never been excited about buying clothes before, but the colors, the elegance, the attractiveness, just overwhelmed my senses! Plus I couldn't believe the price. Most of them were $15 or less. 

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Awesome clothing haul.

I first stepped out in 2006 and thought why did I wait so long?

I realized the one holding me back was myself because people really don't care how you dress.

Most people are too wrapped up in their own lives to worry about anyone else.

If people see someone in womens clothes they think woman and go back to looking at whatever it was they were before.

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10 hours ago, AgnesBardsie said:

I have never been excited about buying clothes before, but the colors, the elegance, the attractiveness, just overwhelmed my senses!

Yes, this. I hated getting dressed before especially suits and ties. Now here it is Friday morning. I'm drinking my coffee thinking about what I'm going to wear to work. Thoughts of: can I wear that top with those bottoms, what shoes to wear (I need more shoes), have I worn that before? Recently?

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21 hours ago, Jandi said:

I do something similar, but go to the flannel nightgowns in colder weather.  Sometimes I hate to get dressed in the morning.

nice. I roll around a lot at night so I can't wear long stuff or it feels like a python wrapped around me.

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19 hours ago, ElizabethStar said:

Lol. I only reason I sleep in pjs is my wife though she gave me a hard no on getting a chemise. 
 


 

You mentioned erections. I find them so annoying. Can't wait for the day I can get that part fixed.

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14 hours ago, AgnesBardsie said:

Went  shopping at Walmart. Lots of bargains! Bought a complete wardrobe. The outside is starting to come into synch with the inside. I can easily see dressing this way every day around the house. It will take a bit of confidence to step out the door and march into the world looking like this. 

 

All those ladies who have posted about unkind words from strangers. You are so brave! You give me courage!

 

Deep breaths!

 

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You look pretty. 

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2 hours ago, Niamh said:

Working at home again..

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You look pretty also. Your office looks a lot like my computer room. I think mine makes yours look empty though. 10 pounds of stuff jammed into a 5 pound box. Sorry, I'm a collector I guess. You never know when you'll need a copy of Windows 3.1 LOL.

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1 hour ago, Jamie68 said:

I'm a collector I guess. You never know when you'll need a copy of Windows 3.1 LOL.

Behind my webcam I have several up to date books such as "Windows NT 3.5 Guidelines for Security Audit and Control" :)

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2 hours ago, Jamie68 said:

You look pretty also. Your office looks a lot like my computer room. I think mine makes yours look empty though. 10 pounds of stuff jammed into a 5 pound box. Sorry, I'm a collector I guess. You never know when you'll need a copy of Windows 3.1 LOL.

Oh yeah? I still have a H89 (HeathKit all in one computer) lying around somewhere soldered together from resistors, transistors and diodes, at least the video and power supply boards were. and a stack of Byte magazines. Never know when I might need them again! Also an MSDOS 5 manual. LOL. I just hate to throw them out!

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1 hour ago, AgnesBardsie said:
2 hours ago, Jamie68 said:

You look pretty also. Your office looks a lot like my computer room. I think mine makes yours look empty though. 10 pounds of stuff jammed into a 5 pound box. Sorry, I'm a collector I guess. You never know when you'll need a copy of Windows 3.1 LOL.

Oh yeah? I still have a H89 (HeathKit all in one computer) lying around somewhere soldered together from resistors, transistors and diodes, at least the video and power supply boards were. and a stack of Byte magazines. Never know when I might need them again! Also an MSDOS 5 manual. LOL. I just hate to throw them out!

I can't get rid of obsolete things either.  I was quite late getting into computer/internet stuff.  Computers are magic.  I use them a lot, but don't have a clue how they work… magic.

Ironically one of my sons is a computer science/engineer with the government now.

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3 hours ago, Jamie68 said:

You mentioned erections. I find them so annoying. Can't wait for the day I can get that part fixed.

 

HRT helps immensely. I was done with unwanted erections after about six months. It's bliss.

 

Hugs!

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3 hours ago, Jackie C. said:

 

HRT helps immensely. I was done with unwanted erections after about six months. It's bliss.

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3 hours ago, Jackie C. said:

 

HRT helps immensely. I was done with unwanted erections after about six months. It's bliss.

 

Hugs!

That's awesome. I can hardly wait. My doctor even mentioned that I could get an orchiectomy in Chicago. I told him I don't think my insurance would cover it yet. It looks like they follow the "Harry Benjamin" standards like most places. I might need to keep stuff for a vaginoplasty anyway. Don't know if I will ever be able to get it, I'm hoping so. If I follow their process they will cover it.

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1 hour ago, Jamie68 said:

I might need to keep stuff for a vaginoplasty anyway. Don't know if I will ever be able to get it, I'm hoping so. If I follow their process they will cover it.

 

It's possible to do an orchi and later have a vaginoplasty, but you should make sure that your surgeon knows that this is your plan so they leave behind the appropriate tissue and avoid unnecessary scarring. I agree that is just seems easier to do it all at once though.

 

Hugs!

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Well, I'll jump in here. For my VA appointments this morning. I was a Purple sweater, A black knit skirt with a purple strip. black legging and a pair of low boots. I even changed from my normal studs. to a pair of hanging Minnie Mouse bows. I'm going to wear them to work later. I need to cover tonight.

 

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