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Today I’m wearing a teal mini skirt with white sun flowers on them and a regular white t shirt with a shite sweater. 
 

I work at home but it feels nice to dress up. I couldn’t wear the mini skirt to work even if I dared to. 
 

I’m trying to grow my hair long but it’s taking a while. I wake up in the morning and look at myself in the mirror and still think no body would ever want me. 
 

Then I realize because I’m still here I must want me! The struggle only makes you stronger but for me it’s just making it through the day. 

 

I choose not to go on hrt but I know if I did It might help but for now it’s just one day at a time.

 

Tessa 

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2 hours ago, Charlize said:

I'm fixing the shed where the buck goats lived and where our new ram lambs will live.

 

I'm remembering what buck goats smell like. Is fixing the shed a euphemism for burning it to the ground... downwind... and starting over?

 

Hugs!

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Wow, this thread got a lot of activity in the last 24 hours!

 

For those lamenting no dressing room: Amazon Prime Wardrobe feature.  Put 7 things in your wardrobe order, they ship it with a return label and you try on everything and ship back what you don't want. They then charge you for what you keep.  It takes a few days longer to get your stuff because they compile it all into one box but it's an amazing feature.  I just ordered a few tops and shoes in 2 different sizes so I will ship back what doesn't fit.

 

I feel you all on the wardrobe changing in the morning. It took me 10 minutes to try on just the right belt for my jumper today!

I think I have about 15 belts alone in the closet. hahahaha

 

@Tessa that's a great way to look at things for now, love yourself first and then others will absolutely gravitate to you.

I haven't dared do a mini skirt. I'm stuck on the "is that age appropriate for me at 55?" lol

 

On a different topic- Bodysuits/ jumpsuits need a crotch zipper!  3 cups of coffee, Spiro and a denim top, then belt, then 5 buttons and finally a zipper all to pull down my jump suit and I'm peeing in my pants!  I may put this outfit back in the closet until I can get off Spiro at the least hahahahaha.

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3 hours ago, Bri2020 said:

I haven't dared do a mini skirt. I'm stuck on the "is that age appropriate for me at 55?" lol

 

It wasn't for me at 48. I bought one, tried it on and now it lives in the bottom of a drawer. Your mileage may vary.

 

Yeah, I always wondered about bodysuits too. I mean, I have to get naked if I want to pee? Hard pass.

 

Hugs!

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A body suit seems like an awful lot of trouble when it comes time for the ladies room.

I tend to pee a lot too LOLOL.

 

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Back at work today and in Niamh mode until Thursday night. Me today and applied some gorgeous nail polish. Not sure if it goes with the tunic dress I'm wearing today, but sometimes I just can't care!

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11 hours ago, Maid In Bedlam said:

 

This was one of my BIG milestones. Getting rid of any shall we say clothes from my past lives. To me it was one of the most profound moments and meant this was my way forwald. However it did hearld the end of that life. In a way I suppose it was just part of the mourning process. Like you get the clothing of someone who has passed away together before taking them to a charity shop. He was now gone completly. But this new and improved person had arisen from his ashes. So it was also a celebration.

This is so well put...you tied it all up in a paragraph.  I have only a tiny vestige of man clothes in a small plastic tote.  I was keeping them for painting and dirty work, but even then I hate wearing that stuff, so I bought some $3 leggings and thrift store tops for doing chores.  One more trip out to dumpster and it's "so long mister".  ?‍♀️

 

 

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It feels like summer here today so breaking out a thrift store find from this winter. I gotta say, I look cute as hell in it. Lol and yes, I had to do a little filter thing to eliminate my beard growth before my electrolysis today ;) 

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That is a nice hat Bri!  It's actually a little cool here and recent posts got me thinking of leggings and short skirts.

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2 hours ago, Ann W said:

It's actually a little cool here and recent posts got me thinking of leggings and short skirts.

Looks very nice, Ann!?

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Looking great @Ann W!  Your studio "mood" lighting alters the colors but I love the whole look. 

 

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Thanks for the compliments...I know, the lighting in here is either blaring fluorescent, or 'all the world's a stage'.  I'm just a junkie for color.

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I guess I went a little more edgy today. I wanted to wear leggings but most of my long shirts are too warm for this weather. I opted for a pair of distressed cut-offs over my leggings. Sorry it’s kind of hard to see, a down side to wearing black. 
 

 

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1 hour ago, Elizabeth Star said:

I guess I went a little more edgy today. I wanted to wear leggings but most of my long shirts are too warm for this weather. I opted for a pair of distressed cut-offs over my leggings. Sorry it’s kind of hard to see, a down side to wearing black. 
 

 

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I had to open up the pic and zoom in. I like the combo. My wife is finally going girl clothes shopping with me today or tomorrow. I need the help. I get an email from Venus clothing almost every day. I love the clothes, but none of it would look good on someone my age or shape. Too bad I couldn't come out in my 20s.

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14 hours ago, Ann W said:

That is a nice hat Bri!  It's actually a little cool here and recent posts got me thinking of leggings and short skirts.

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I love the style, very feminine but fun.

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2 hours ago, Niamh said:

At least the nail polish coordinated with my dress today :)

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I’m missing out with all these cute dresses. My friend came to work yesterday in a turquoise and flower one. 

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I'm wearing this dress today, I know I've posted this same outfit before, but I did part my hair different.

 

 

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I went to Walmart wearing the polkadot leggings. I was worried but turns out I didn’t need too. 
 

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Had a dinner date earlier so this was my outfit.

It was nice to get out and go to a Japanese place and watch them cook dinner.

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