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10 minutes ago, Elizabeth Star said:

It’s a funny coincidence, today my FB feed is flooded with ads for fleece lined leggings. 

 

I own a pair of those! They're black with purple butterflies on them. It's like wearing your pajamas all day. 100% do recommend.

 

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34 minutes ago, Jackie C. said:

I own a pair of those! They're black with purple butterflies on them. It's like wearing your pajamas all day. 100% do recommend.

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I have two black pairs. I’ve only worn them two or three times and they’re already covered in little lint balls. Both pair!

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4 minutes ago, Elizabeth Star said:

I have two black pairs. I’ve only worn them two or three times and they’re already covered in little lint balls. Both pair!

 

That is so weird. Wash them inside out (in a delicates bag) and then line-dry?

 

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2 hours ago, Jackie C. said:

I own a pair of those!

Me too.  I got some while at my daughter's house.  Her SO keeps the house cold.  The leggings are just the thing for under a skirt in those conditions.

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On 12/6/2021 at 8:57 AM, Audrey said:

Thank you everyone! I have a thing about cinching the waist with belts and such to emphasize the curves. Unfortunately it rides up a bit so I have to be careful. I am using fashion tape to help with that. I also hear hairspray works too but I hesitate to get it on my clothes!

Love,

~Audrey.

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Today I went cis/non binary, and decided to wear my banjo.

 

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@Bri2020 Thank you so muchfor the suggestion! I have some shapewear from Va Bien (same brand as my bras) that I wear with certain outfits but I do not often wear it. Instead I am looking to define a figure using structured clothing and strategic accessories. I learned so much from watching the show What Not To Wear!

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~Audrey.

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Would it bother any of you if I posted picks as I am now, with facial hair? Until and unless I go through HRT I have no intention of giving it up, no matter how much it conforms to gender norms: in fact, because it conforms to gender norms. I still feel pretty in my (still very limited amount of) dresses, in spite of my mutton chops.....

 

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8 minutes ago, Jamey said:

Would it bother any of you if I posted picks as I am now, with facial hair? Until and unless I go through HRT I have no intention of giving it up, no matter how much it conforms to gender norms: in fact, because it conforms to gender norms. I still feel pretty in my (still very limited amount of) dresses, in spite of my mutton chops.....

Let me expand on that: those of us who can, I feel should challenge gender norms. I fought coming out for years because I did NOT want to harm this community by being, er, confusing

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9 hours ago, Jamey said:

Would it bother any of you if I posted picks as I am now, with facial hair?

 

I can't imagine it would offend anybody. A dear friend of mine doesn't shave either. If your dysphoria lets you appear as you are, go for it.

 

Honestly, I'm a little impressed by your strength, I HATED my facial hair... well, all my male hair really. Good on you for being yourself. This is about feeling comfortable in your own skin after all.

 

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1 hour ago, Jackie C. said:

I can't imagine it would offend anybody. A dear friend of mine doesn't shave either. If your dysphoria lets you appear as you are, go for it.

Honestly, I'm a little impressed by your strength, I HATED my facial hair... well, all my male hair really. Good on you for being yourself. This is about feeling comfortable in your own skin after all.

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I much more hate the parts other people can't see....

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When I first started wearing a dress, I had a long beard.  I did shave it soon after though.  

In my case I realized I was hiding behind it for years, trying to be a guy.

But it wouldn't bother me to see it.  Genderqueer is genderqueer.

 

There is a person on instagram "alokvmenon" that is covered in body hair.  Not my thing, but whatever.  

They have also put up a number posts on the history of gender non-conforming folks.  Kinda interesting.

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34 minutes ago, Jamey said:

I much more hate the parts other people can't see....

 

Parts of you are invisible? That's SO cool...

 

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@Jamey I agree with everyone, always be yourself and share in a way you are comfortable with. I cannot imagine anyone would be upset. If it helps... I know I was very uncomfortable early on sharing any images of my face or body. It took me a while to change my thinking and perception of myself, and a lot of work challenging those negative thoughts about myself. In time I got better at doing that. Eventually my feelings shifted and helped me not only see myself in a different and more positive light, but also more confident being my authentic self around other people.

Also, today's outfit, I am working from home. I adore this sweater! Both pieces are from Venus, wedge sandals by Bellini. Somewhere in my fantasy world it is still summer in NYC in December. If I go out I will absolutely change shoes, and wear my puffer coat.

Love,

~Audrey.

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49 minutes ago, Jackie C. said:

Parts of you are invisible? That's SO cool...

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HA! I wish ❤️

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@Jamey Fun and colorful scarves are one of my favorite accessories this time of year! Depending on the colors in the rest of the outfit, you can make certain details and designs really stand out! ❤️

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~Audrey

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42 minutes ago, Audrey said:

@Jamey I agree with everyone, always be yourself and share in a way you are comfortable with. I cannot imagine anyone would be upset. If it helps... I know I was very uncomfortable early on sharing any images of my face or body. It took me a while to change my thinking and perception of myself, and a lot of work challenging those negative thoughts about myself. In time I got better at doing that. Eventually my feelings shifted and helped me not only see myself in a different and more positive light, but also more confident being my authentic self around other people.

Also, today's outfit, I am working from home. I adore this sweater! Both pieces are from Venus, wedge sandals by Bellini. Somewhere in my fantasy world it is still summer in NYC in December. If I go out I will absolutely change shoes, and wear my puffer coat.

Love,

~Audrey.

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That is an awesome sweater Audrey.  So nice to see you doing well and looking good!

22 minutes ago, JustineM said:

Trying a new hairstyle and a tad of makeup today. But tell me… does this vest make my butt look big? 

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You look so pretty @JustineM.  Your makeup looks fantastic, but your smile is the real payoff.

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I take it you are teaching a class? 

You make a very, very good Wolverine. 

 

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I take it you are teaching a class? 

You make a very, very good Wolverine. 

 

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