What are you wearing today?

[Ivy]

4 hours ago, umbrielle said:

His stuff always made me feel dainty. I'm 5'9, he was 6'7.

I really like to be hugged by big guys.

 

I met a guy at a meeting some years ago (pre egg crack).  He was a big guy and a hugger.  Lifted me right off my feet.  I was surprised at how much I loved it.  I still think about it sometimes.  Sigh.

[Birdie]

 

I finished my makeup for my Zoom date. Oh my do I still need to lose weight!

 

Just light makeup, I don't use much.

[April Marie]

25 minutes ago, Birdie said:

 

I finished my makeup for my Zoom date. Oh my do I still need to lose weight!

 

Just light makeup, I don't use much.

Have fun on your date!!! You look wonderful!!!

 

I can't wait to try on the dress @Hannah Renee!! It doesn't arrive until Wednesday, though. 😞 

[Guest]

1 hour ago, Ivy said:

I really like to be hugged by big guys.

 

I met a guy at a meeting some years ago (pre egg crack).  He was a big guy and a hugger.  Lifted me right off my feet.  I was surprised at how much I loved it.  I still think about it sometimes.  Sigh.

We joked that we looked like a normal couple in a kid's world. 

He did often make me feel more traditionally feminine just from the size difference. It's like a 6ft guy dating a 5'2 woman.

 

If I ever date again, there will be a minimum height requirement. 

[Ashley0616]

54 minutes ago, Birdie said:

 

I finished my makeup for my Zoom date. Oh my do I still need to lose weight!

 

Just light makeup, I don't use much.

You look great!

[Ashley0616]

6 hours ago, umbrielle said:

If admin put this thread behind registration, it wouldn't get indexed by the search engines and we stealth types could not chop our heads off. 😉 

 

I had stolen my boyfriend's leather jacket a couple years ago. He died,  so mine now.

 

...is that cross dressing?! Transition mtf, start dating guys, So i can steal their clothing? 

 

His stuff always made me feel dainty. I'm 5'9, he was 6'7.

 

 

I wouldn't say so.

[Ashley0616]

2 hours ago, Ivy said:

I really like to be hugged by big guys.

 

I met a guy at a meeting some years ago (pre egg crack).  He was a big guy and a hugger.  Lifted me right off my feet.  I was surprised at how much I loved it.  I still think about it sometimes.  Sigh.

I'm sorry. I wonder what it feels like to get picked up?

[Ashley0616]

10 minutes ago, umbrielle said:

We joked that we looked like a normal couple in a kid's world. 

He did often make me feel more traditionally feminine just from the size difference. It's like a 6ft guy dating a 5'2 woman.

 

If I ever date again, there will be a minimum height requirement. 

I wished I was that short. Clothes and shoes would have more options. 

[Guest]

1 minute ago, Ashley0616 said:

I'm sorry. I wonder what it feels like to get picked up?

Leaves me with mixed feelings. But I do feel more... delicate maybe?

Mixed because of an implied power differential and its inherent threat.

[Guest]

1 minute ago, Ashley0616 said:

I wished I was that short. Clothes and shoes would have more options. 

Yeah, unfortunately that doesn't get fixed. 

 

That said,  back when I was younger and 20lbs lighter,  at 5'9 and 140lbs - stuff fit me just like the model in the photo for many brands. 

 

Other brands sized for 5'4 and made custom stuff for their models. Those were brands I avoided. 

[Ashley0616]

2 minutes ago, umbrielle said:

Leaves me with mixed feelings. But I do feel more... delicate maybe?

Mixed because of an implied power differential and its inherent threat.

I'd learn MMA to defend yourself.

[Guest]

Just now, Ashley0616 said:

I'd learn MMA to defend yourself.

40 years of TKD. And I carry concealed. 

 

Practical doesn't always equate to experience though! Especially in physical power differential. 

[missyjo]

so sorry for your loss dear. I use mygriefangles zoom meetings to help. 

 

as to clothes..1 I list a lit of weight n still enjoy much bigger soft flannels thar I toss on like a robe if needed..n I gave her closet too..and also toy with borrowing sine of her clothes for myself.  like leather skirts n corsets   

 

whatever you decide works for you dear

 

good luck

hugs

 

[Ashley0616]

6 minutes ago, umbrielle said:

40 years of TKD. And I carry concealed. 

 

Practical doesn't always equate to experience though! Especially in physical power differential. 

I was taught to use pressure points. It will bring anyone down no matter what size. I have thought of every possible situation that I could be in. The only one I can't come up if they have a gun and they are too far enough to fight with gun and if they sneak right behind you with a gun pointed against the back. 

[Guest]

3 minutes ago, Ashley0616 said:

I was taught to use pressure points. It will bring anyone down no matter what size. I have thought of every possible situation that I could be in. The only one I can't come up if they have a gun and they are too far enough to fight with gun and if they sneak right behind you with a gun pointed against the back. 

Definitely want to get to a gym and try those out on a real life big guy before you rely upon them on the street! 

[Ivy]

27 minutes ago, Ashley0616 said:

I wonder what it feels like to get picked up?

Well, that was in a nonthreatening situation, and I did kinda like the guy.

I'm around 5'10" myself.

That being said, my ex didn't always appreciate it if I hug-picked-up her.

I would not have liked being manhandled.

 

 

[Birdie]

35 minutes ago, Ashley0616 said:

You look great!

Thanks girls for the compliments. 💋💞💋

[Guest]

4 hours ago, Ivy said:

Well, that was in a nonthreatening situation, and I did kinda like the guy.

I'm around 5'10" myself.

That being said, my ex didn't always appreciate it if I hug-picked-up her.

I would not have liked being manhandled.

 

 

There's definitely a time and place (and consent) for being manhandled. 

It can be insanely hot, incredibly obnoxious,  or downright frightening.  I've found guys often aren't super clear on how and when those apply.

[Mmindy]

On 2/18/2024 at 10:12 AM, Ivy said:

I really like to be hugged by big guys.

 

I met a guy at a meeting some years ago (pre egg crack).  He was a big guy and a hugger.  Lifted me right off my feet.  I was surprised at how much I loved it.  I still think about it sometimes.  Sigh.

@Ivy I was raised in a family of huggers, you didn't go into any of my relative's homes without getting a hug from everyone there. It was repeated when you were leaving. My wife on the other hand was raised in a household of introverts and they barely made eye contact, when you visited them. She says one of the best things about being accepted into our family was all the hugs. Now that we're the elders of the families, no one comes into our home without getting hugged. My best friend was raised in a military family, and he went on to be a West Point manly man. They always shook hands as their greetings. I believe I'm the the first person he's ever hugged out of gratefulness and love. On Super Bowl weekend 2008 I informed him that we were a match, and I could donate him a kidney. From that day forward he has hugged me while leaning back, lifting me off the ground. Like you I love it! He has really changed his opinion of LGBTQ people and realizes his bigoted ideology   was out of ignorance and upbringing. The Army taught him to loose his racism and his daughter taught him to accept LGBTQIA folks while she was in college. I will be getting hugs from him this week as we're going on our annual trout fishing trip.

 

You've been >HUGGED<

 

Mindy🌈🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋

[Guest]

My friends know: you need to file a hug requisition form in triplicate at least 180 days prior to the touching event.

 

Nothing personal,  but >99% of hug requisitions are declined, due to resource scarcity. 

 

I blade from people who encroach on my personal space.

 

Even my knuckleheaded boyfriend would rest his hand on my waist or hip to get my temperature before getting close. And never on my right side. 

[Ashley0616]

29 minutes ago, umbrielle said:

My friends know: you need to file a hug requisition form in triplicate at least 180 days prior to the touching event.

 

Nothing personal,  but >99% of hug requisitions are declined, due to resource scarcity. 

 

I blade from people who encroach on my personal space.

 

Even my knuckleheaded boyfriend would rest his hand on my waist or hip to get my temperature before getting close. And never on my right side. 

Whew I would love to be touched! I wouldn't matter even if it was in public. To be able to feel that affection! I guess I'm just a hapless romantic. 

[Ivy]

5 minutes ago, Ashley0616 said:

I guess I'm just a hapless romantic. 

Likewise 

 

[missyjo]

I vote with Ashley n ivy..I enjoy the hugs..from friends are nice..better from someone flirting with you or in a club...they put more into it..like a first kiss....but they all help the world seem better

 

hugs to all that want them

 

[Ashley0616]

[Keera]

That's a lovely story Mmindy and funny too.....enjoyed it!

love Keera