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Hi all,

 

Its 5:03 AM here in Nebraska. Suppose to have a decent day. My day will consist of a hot bath, picking out the dress I want to wear, choc chip waffles and Sunny D for breakfast, checking my Toc Toc Account and bank account, checking to see online who has read my story, and then will start work at 7:30 AM. If they are offering overtime I’ll take it. I have TV dinners for lunch and Oreos and Doritos for a snack. Oh yes! I watch movies while I work. I put them on low. Since I work collections and most of my calls are people wanting extensions on their payments it can get stressful. I hear sad sad stories but I’m there to help. Having a movie in the background even though I can’t really watch it is a way I can focus off the negative energy. I give off positive energy but a lot of customers are sad. I choose movies that match. Today we’re going back to the 80,s and 90’s. Here’s my list:

 

Say Anything 

Sixteen Candles

Weird Science 
Ferris Buellers Day Off 

The Breakfast Club 

 

Last night I watched Serendipity. One of my favorite love movies. It’s all about fate! 

 

I will work from 8 to 5PM maybe 7 if overtime is available. I enjoy a coke while I work as well as my snacks. During my 15 min breaks if it’s nice I’ll go outside. This evening maybe a walk. After work I’ll do a Tic Toc, watch more movies, work on my story, and then bed. So that’s my day. Let me know if you like any of the movies I will be watching today? 
 

Tell me about your day? 
 

Love Tessa?‍?

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1 hour ago, Tessa said:

I miss shopping. I’m on furlough from my retail job right now. I like just walking through a mall and going to the different stores. I might buy something I might not. What kind of truck where you looking at? 

I used to never go shopping now I want to all the time haha. It’s was just an 04 Chevy 2500 diesel I was gonna buy it and fix it up and have a nice 4  door but I don’t know how bad I want another project lol.

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44 minutes ago, Emily michelle said:

I miss shopping. I’m on furlough from my retail job right now. I like just walking through a mall and going to the different stores. I might buy something I might not.

Me too!  We drove an hour and a half one way yesterday into NH to go shoppning at a super Walmart. (Groceries/Retail/Auto center type.)  I absolutely abused the clearance racks.  LOL

Then groceries too.    It was like getting a fix.  Ahhhhhhhhh…...

 

Crappy snowy/rainy day here in VT this morning but some how my heart is so lifted.  Spring is in the air and I chose to still wear some cute spring colors on such a day.

I hope you all have a wonderful day.

 

-oh yea. Coffee too. Duh....

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My coffee tastes extra good this morning.

I'm beginning to get the "stir crazy" blues, so today I will work on my guitar practice and another drawing to try to stay focused.

Surprisingly I also received my "stimulus check" today, although since it was a direct deposit it's just magic number money. It does come at a helpful time.

Wishing everyone a pleasant and safe day! A big smile and hug to all!

TA

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Tea this morning, rather than coffee.  It's cool and rainy.

 

I had a nice morning reconnecting with and coming out to a couple of guys from my flying course 43 years ago.  I'd posted a photo of our course members on a Facebook page, and got a couple of 'likes' from old course-mates.  So, I messaged them, told them what happened to <deadname> and what I was up to now.  Had a nice time catching up.

 

It's funny how people from that era in my life are all fine and accepting of my transition.  They are all of a similar age to me, we have shared some experiences in the distant past, and they realize that life is too short to get bent out of shape by someone's transition.  A few years ago, I came out to an online friend whom I have never met in person.  His response was, "I learned a long time ago, in the jungles of Vietnam, that life is too short not to live it to its fullest."  I wouldn't wish the way he learned that on anyone, but I wish more people understood that lesson.  I am happy that my old pals have.

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Hi

 

Pretty day today. Blue sky, birds are talking.

 

I have a couple of sun dresses I haven’t been able to wear yet. Right after we got them the weather turned to fall and I haven’t gone anywhere this spring.

 

My new Soma bra came yesterday.  I really like it. It’s a front close with sides that hide that bubble that seems to form just below my armpit. 
 

willow

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31 minutes ago, KathyLauren said:

Tea this morning, rather than coffee.

 

Tea is what I prefer, myself, and is what I make every morning.  Today was a nice cup of Irish Breakfast.

 

It's warmer than yesterday and sunny, nice to see a break in the rain.  I may work from my patio this afternoon.

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Good morning all! Beautiful day here 52 now going up to 85, yaah! I'm wearing a red dress and loving it. I took the trash to the curb and there is a slight breeze, felt soooo good feeling my dress blowing in the wind!

I think I am going to enjoy my coffee on the patio.

 

Hugs

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35 minutes ago, BrandiBri said:

Good morning all! Beautiful day here 52 now going up to 85, yaah! I'm wearing a red dress and loving it. I took the trash to the curb and there is a slight breeze, felt soooo good feeling my dress blowing in the wind!

I think I am going to enjoy my coffee on the patio.

 

Hugs

I’m wearing a green sundress. Working at home! So comfortable! 
 

Did you get a chance to read my latest poem?

 

Tessa?‍?

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Nice nails, Tessa. I am working on mine. Actually helped my son on his project car on Thursday and didn't break a nail. yea.  Blue skies and sunshine here. but a cool wind. typical for Wyoming. You can tell a motorcyclist from Wyoming as they ride like this / because of the wind.

 

Just waiting for the coffee to warm back up. timed out. Back to closing a 9pm. which I think is stupid but corporate says so. We will see just how busy we are. If the lights shut down at quarter of 8(computer controlled at home office) I am out of there.

 

Have a good day everyone.

 

Hugs

Kymmie

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@Tessa I’m jealous of your nails.  Mine break so easily.  I try and try and just about the time they start looking something other than ragged and broken, one breaks.

 

@KathyLauren there was a lot of bad stuff going on during Vietnam.   If you were in the military back then you were definitely looked down upon. When I came home from Southeast Asia we were warned to put on civilian clothes and not to go anywhere off base in California in a uniform.  We were proud but had to hide.

 

I am still afraid to let old friends know I am transgender not even my brother in law knows.  Other than here or group there aren’t more than a dozen people that know.  I so want to shout it out sometimes.

 

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1 hour ago, Tessa said:

I had someone tell me once I had beautiful nails! What do you Babes think?

Way better then mine.  One thing that sucks about being a technician.  

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I wish I had nails half as good as yours. I’m lucky enough to be able to get all of the dirt out of them.

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1 hour ago, kelly sinclair said:

Starting to grow  my nails out to I got really  small hands for a new girl   

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You are so lucky to have such nice hands!  

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2 hours ago, ShawnaLeigh said:

Way better then mine.  One thing that sucks about being a technician.  

I work at a computer all day. So it was a lady at my church that said she loved my nails. I thought it was a joke but maybe I guess it wasn’t. Thank you all for the nice compliments! I don’t get a lot of that being single. 
 

Tessa?‍?

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3 hours ago, kelly sinclair said:

Thats size 9 men's @lauraincolumbia lol 

You are so lucky!!!!   All the cute shoes come in you size!

Im 6’1, and wear a size 12-13.  Only a few brands make them, and fewer stores carry them.

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I just got off work. Stressful day to say the least. System froze! Didn’t get up for an hour. Called boss to help. I always feel when I have to call a boss I did something wrong. This was not my fault at all. Anyway it’s over now. Old friends text me back. Good feeling they still remember me. Nice outside. Maybe a walk. Late dinner. More movies and writing. 
 

Tessa?‍?

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Well I know it’s evening lol. It was mentioned on here before the documentary Trans. I finally got the chance to watch it. The show was a tear jerker if both good and bad. It’s sad how many of us go through without any support at all. It makes me grateful to be here and that there are people in my life who support me.

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Emily where did you find that documentary? I would love to see it. 

 

Kymmie 

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Good Morning! Sipping hot coffee. Fell asleep last night at 7:30pm. Long work hours are exhausting. Have a nice day everyone!

 

I think the documentary Trans is available on Amazon. I haven't seen it yet.

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Good morning. One of  these mornings I’m going to go back to Starbucks and get my favorite drink. Peppermint Mocha. I took a hot bath this morning for more than an hour. Shaved my legs and got all girly and pretty for work. I’m wearing a mini skirt and pink socks with biker boots and a black t-shirt with a cat on it with money all around the cat. Meow! Anyway feel like being playful but no one to play with. I work at home. I’m the prettiest Babe here! Lol. I even wear my name tag. I am being creative with my home work life. I really would like to spend my time with someone special. I have a great personality and so full of life! Well this Babe’s got to get to work now. Later going to see kids. They want to bring their Xbox over. I will play with them but I suck at games. It’s just for them. Carter needed some batteries for the Xbox controller but my ex would not let me bring her any. Today’s my day to see them do I went and bought her some. I love my kids! 
 

Tessa is full of love❤️
 

later Babes

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