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Wow, so much going on here. I have been trying to stay up to date with things but don't have much time to post anything.

 

My GF's recovering pretty good. She's still staying at the Queer Quadplex which is good since there's always someone home and able to drive her appointments.

 

The S/D aspect of our relationship has done some good for me. In past relationship I only had the illusion of making decisions but now I actually have to make them, myself. A great example was over the weekend. She had just said she was hungry. So I gave my preprogrammed response and asked where she wanted to go.  I was promptly told "No, you decide. We will go wherever YOU want." Honestly, it's a hard habit to break.

 

I finally mustered up enough motivation to finish my kitchen. And I'm still looking to sell my house by the end of the year. Through a complex series of events (sometimes my life is a Rube Goldberg machine) I should be able to move out in 2-3 months and get my house listed.

 

Have a good night everyone.❤️

 

 

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Mom and I talked last night,said she is doing good with the changes with me as Holly fulltime.Is glad I did come out as transgender finally.Knows I will be seeing the specialist for the feminization hormones on Friday.

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9 hours ago, Elizabeth Star said:

I was promptly told "No, you decide. We will go wherever YOU want." Honestly, it's a hard habit to break.

 

Honestly, this is a good habit to break. The normal pattern for lesbians is to ask the other partner where they want to go or what they want until one of us starves. I don't know why we're like this.

 

It sounds like a good relationship for you though Liz. I'm glad you get to experience this.

 

Hugs!

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10 hours ago, Elizabeth Star said:

I was promptly told "No, you decide. We will go wherever YOU want." Honestly, it's a hard habit to break.

I'm like this too.    It was a thing that annoyed my ex.  I was supposed to be "the leader."

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10 hours ago, Elizabeth Star said:

  I was promptly told "No, you decide. We will go wherever YOU want." Honestly, it's a hard habit to break.

I am that way as well. Is that another indicator that someone is trans??? the world, may never know.

 

Well slowly getting our paperwork in for the pre approval. Have a couple places that we want to look at once it is done. The one that started it all is right across the street.

 

Have a good day.

 

Kymmie

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It’s a wonderful cool clear morning in Milwaukee. Mornings like this makes the coffee taste extra good! Been up since 4 this morning but hey. Maybe I can finish work early today.

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19 minutes ago, Hannah Renee said:

No words

Sounds like somebody needs a bicycle.

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Well, no coffee for me today.  
 

Kymmie I get were you are coming from. I never know when the tables might turn. It goes from makeup suggestions to clothes to you need to be male.

 

Oh you are wondering why no coffee?  Well, they don’t serve coffee where I spent the night, on the floor, in a concrete room, by myself, in orange pjs that had GCDC on the back.  All because of the kid with the gun.  Argh!  

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Good evening  everyone

 

still hot coffee in my hand , sweet and creamy, i need all the help i can get

 

again today the spouse brought up finding a trans/ lgbtq friendly location in the northeast to park our 5 wheel permanently,

she is worried and wanting  a safe place to take me if thing become stupid local , i don't know what to think,   its a shame a good loving woman , a vet no less

has to worry about such things , has the world drank the cool aid,,,, some days its hard to keep ones head above water 

 

Peace, love N Hugs to all

             Betty

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2 hours ago, Willow said:

 Well, they don’t serve coffee where I spent the night, on the floor, in a concrete room, by myself, in orange pjs that had GCDC on the back.  All because of the kid with the gun.

What?  Why?

What does that have to do with you?

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2 hours ago, Willow said:

Well, no coffee for me today.  
 

Kymmie I get were you are coming from. I never know when the tables might turn. It goes from makeup suggestions to clothes to you need to be male.

 

Oh you are wondering why no coffee?  Well, they don’t serve coffee where I spent the night, on the floor, in a concrete room, by myself, in orange pjs that had GCDC on the back.  All because of the kid with the gun.  Argh!  

-what the heck-? How did that situation get turned upside down?

 

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Because of the kid, the sheriff was called, as I live at the marina where he was shooting I was questioned.  The following night the same deputy came back with two others and arrested me on an outstanding warrant I knew nothing about.  Got my own cell because of being transgender.

 

Very upsetting 

 

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4 minutes ago, Willow said:

Because of the kid, the sheriff was called, as I live at the marina where he was shooting I was questioned.  The following night the same deputy came back with two others and arrested me on an outstanding warrant I knew nothing about.  Got my own cell because of being transgender.

 

Very upsetting 

 

oof, like you need this challenge in your life. I hope it works out ok

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1 hour ago, Willow said:

Because of the kid, the sheriff was called, as I live at the marina where he was shooting I was questioned.  The following night the same deputy came back with two others and arrested me on an outstanding warrant I knew nothing about.  Got my own cell because of being transgender.

 

Very upsetting 

 

oh Jeez!  Sorry to read this WIllow.  Hope everything gets worked out for you

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Found out I am invited to come to a mother/daughter breakfast on Sunday and told mom I will go.It is with a group of moms with daughters that also accept moms with transgender daughters in.My relationship with my mom is a lot better since I came out as transgender later in my life although I crossdressed for a long time

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3 hours ago, Willow said:

Very upsetting 

Oh my Willow, I’m praying everything is settled soon and you’re okay.

 

Hugs,

 

🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋

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2 hours ago, Hannah Renee said:

I have a 10:00 job interview tomorrow. Wife says just drive it, it should be fine. For the record, she's a nurse, not a mechanic.

Hannah,

 

 I hope you find a way to the interview and getting your truck fixed.

 

Hugs,

 

Mindy🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋

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35 minutes ago, HollyNG said:

Found out I am invited to come to a mother/daughter breakfast on Sunday

That’s great news and I hope turns out real fun for everyone involved. 
 

Best wishes, stay positive, and motivated,

 

Mindy🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋

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Willow, Holey Cow. That is terrible. Hope everything gets ironed out.

 

Kymmie

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29 minutes ago, Mmindy said:

That’s great news and I hope turns out real fun for everyone involved. 
 

Best wishes, stay positive, and motivated,

 

Mindy🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋

It will turn out good.Found out there are two moms there that also have a transgender daughter too.

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12 hours ago, Willow said:

Because of the kid, the sheriff was called, as I live at the marina where he was shooting I was questioned.  The following night the same deputy came back with two others and arrested me on an outstanding warrant I knew nothing about.  Got my own cell because of being transgender.

 

Very upsetting 

 

That really sucks. Hope everything goes well.

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Good morning

 

Major Dickinson is doing his duty today.  I have to find a lawyer.  That’s not going to be fun.  We also intend(ed?) to check on the progress of our unit today.  And something else, I don’t recall what that was.  My brain is rather scrambled.

 

turns out when I didn’t call my wife(they never gave me the opportunity), she started searching all over to find me.  She finally went to a local fire station, and a paramedic helped her locate me.  She was in the office waiting for me when I got out.  That choked me up.  
 

it’s going to take a few days to get back to my regular posts.  Thanks for caring.  You all are a great bunch of friends!

 

Hugs with wet eyes

 

Willow

 

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11 hours ago, Hannah Renee said:

 About to click out and I notice that a loose gas cap can be the culprit. Wait a second, the light came on right after I left the gas station. We t down to my car to check, even though I thought, I would have noticed it hanging by its tether. Opened the little door and, lo and behold, it's not loose. It's gone. $23 at the auto parts store, and game on. So I guess not everything requires panic.

Hannah, That problem is more common that people think. At work I see it at least once a week.

 

Speaking of work. Still waiting on my yearly eval. Not even any word on it. I'm going to ask the district manager next time I see him. While I am at it. I just may ask why I wasn't informed of me not getting the position I was working for.  While still not official. I keep hearing more and more about the other asst getting it. He has ideas on changing this or that. The territory sales rep was in yesterday. He was raving about how he got a couple complements on the asst.

 

I am getting so fed up with the whole thing. I still have this feeling that the main reason I am getting the shaft is that I am trans. However I cannot prove it. I just may start looking for other employment. However that will be after I find out if the home loan goes through. That will dictate my next move.

 

On a better note. Since I am a descendant of King Henry the 5th. I am now Lady Kymbrill. LOL

 

@Willow not letting you make your phone call is terrible and illegal on their part. Make sure you tell what ever lawyer you get. Having your wife worrying about your and learning of your arrest from the fire dept. You may have a law suit brewing.

How barbaric not serving coffee, I hope you were able to get some once you got home.

 

Hugs to all, big hug to willow.

 

Lady Kymmie

 

 

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Anyone in the Chicago area want to get a late lunch/thrift shopping afternoon in with me on Sunday May 16? I have an electro appointment that Monday. Normally I see my kid but he leaves the day before to be a traveling actor up in Montana for the summer. He's part of a professional Sharkspeare in the Park troop. I might have dinner with his GF later in the evening.

 

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I cannot figure out the woman I married. While putting away the clean cloths what do I find a new black nightshirt. In with my clothes. She opposes my transition. Yet, she buys me woman's clothes. They just appear form out of no where. First was the denim skirt at Xmas, now this.  I guess it is a mystery like how many licks to get to the center of a tootsie pop. THe world may never know.

 

Lady Kymmie.

 

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