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He’s OK. Just getting his yearly check up.  I was the 3rd one to arrive, there’s 11 now. I won’t have wait too long. 

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Oh such a cutie. I miss my boys (Tucker was a tricolor setter and Sir Bear was a Springer Spaniel) both were cremated and are in my nightstand waiting for the day I pass. In my will l ask to be cremated, mixed with my boys and spread in the woods, our favorite place together.

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1 hour ago, Shay said:

@KathyLauren how cute is that.... A hat kitty ....

 

Yeah, that's what my wife tells me. 

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@ElizabethStar here are my 2 boys  Tucker and Sir Bear of Jac 

in the lower Tucker collage - upper right - I'm laying down reading and he comes and wacks the book so I'll pay attention to him

InBear's 2 photos the right one he is opening his Christmas present.

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@ElizabethStar - so true the stories I could tell - I always wore thorn proof clothes taking them out - because this time was theirs, doing what they loved to do - showing me where the pheasants were and scaring them up, in the snow - showing me where the deer slept the night before, pointing and holding a point for 5 minutes to show me a dragonfly.

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My other kiddo is a Blue Merle Border Collie. Try to say that 3 times fast. Today is his 1 year birthday. I really need to get off my but and go get him cake and present. Guess I'm heading out...again.

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I had to put my two furry friends on here too lol. This one is Walter he is too afraid to go down stairs so I had to take this picture.

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I also have to take our fur baby to the vet today, except for us it is a bit more of an adventure. We are boarding him for a week while we go on vacation, and so he needs some shots. Except he doesn't do well with shots (he actually has bit the vet before). So we have to sedate him, which is going to be a trip and an half since that means getting him into a corner, closing a door on him, and giving him a shot. So this will be interesting I guess.

 

He's overall a good enough dog, but he is a rescue, so we think the pain is a PTSD trigger for him, which he does not react well to.

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My fur kids are Patrick our black and tan long hair mini dachshund. Then Bandit our dsh kitty. 

 

I love the Shelties. Smokie passed 5 years ago. He passed doing what he loved to do, laying in the backyard watching the world go by. I still miss him.

 

 

Kymmie

 

Smokie

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Bandit

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Patrick when he was younger,  decided to jump off my sons porch

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ah... poor Patrick - I bet he is a real spitfire.

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@Kylie @Emily michelle @KymmieL @QuestioningAmber @ElizabethStar @KathyLauren I just love ALL these cute pets. I think you've inspired me to add another topic . Watch for it so you can share your gorgeous furry friends and if any one has other unfurry friends they are welcome.

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Sorry to getaway from our cute furry kids.

 

Well as soon as I get up this morning. I am hating the day. as soon as I step foot in the store. I hate it even more. Totes of incoming freight everywhere. From the past 3 days. I decide to just do what I need to do and forget about the disaster. Good thing that it wasn't that busy today. I am so fried out it isn't funny. Good thing that I play delivery driver most of the day. Kept me out of the store. 

 

Now my wife and youngest son is calling my Harley a girls bike. simply because since I did the Stage 1 upgrade. it vibrates more. so more enjoyable for the girls. Milwaukee vibrator. LOL.

I am just wondering if they are trying to start and argument. When they call the bike a girls bike I think they expect me to say, yeah, it is a girls bike, mine. Because I am a girl. I haven't fallen for it. I so need to get the hell out of here and start living happy and free to be me.

 

Now back to your regularly scheduled show. In progress.

 

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Kymmie

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@KymmieL it's fine to let it out. I just got an observation. We as humans tend to think the best case or worst case scenario when people do or say something and we interpret people's actions. You know them and so you can better assess why they said it was a girls bike but could you be over reacting or has this been going on for a long time? Don't let them press you buttons decide not to let them get to you decide to be who you are with or without their consent. If they don't accept you that is their problem not yours.

 

Now back to regularly scheduled program.

 

You are loved for who you are.

 

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So they're calling you a Harley chick? At least that's what I'm hearing. I have a good friend who's a Harley girl. She's awesome, just don't piss her off.

 

 

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yep, Liz,

Biker (B)witch through and through. Harley Chic is right. The one thing that is coming with me when I leave.
Shay, Oh, I believe they were pushing my buttons. but the buttons where disconnected. First it was my wife last night at dinner. She mentioned it. We had rode to eat. Then it was my son today. Just the way they said it. Like they were waiting on a certain answer. Then with my wife getting all bent out of shape about me riding to Cheyenne last week. 

 

My middle son is my biggest supporter. Once when I was looking to quit and go back to the old me. I told him that the closet was boarded up. He responded "Do it because it is what you  want to do not something you'll regret cuz some rather close minded people we love won't accept you"

 

He is talking about his brothers and his Mom. my wife and son's. I just have a feeling that my life here is getting toxic. I need to leave and be myself.

 

Kymmie

 

 

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@KymmieL that’s unfortunate that your wife and son are behaving like that.  
 

I suppose it’s time you redouble you effort at getting a job elsewhere.  I know my wife and I have had times when I thought is it time to go live on my boat, then we talk again and things are better.  
 

I used to ride an Ultra Classic.  Best riding bike ever.  The Lincoln or Caddy, depending or your preference, of the motorcycle world.  I had to stop after I had surgery on both shoulders.  I was afraid I would not have the strength to avoid a car that didn’t see me.

 

looks like rain today.

 

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@KymmieL I am so happy your middle son is an ally. Embarrass that and cherish. Harley girls rule.

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Morning girls, interesting week.  First part of the week, my ex-girlfriend was wanting to be friends again. Then Thursday she was posting stuff on Facebook and ready to tear me anew you know what. Last night she called all apologetic. Guess I'm fortunate I don't have to live with her. I  don't know if I could stay the course. It's why I  quit last time. On a positive note, my girls are starting to grow again. 

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