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3 minutes ago, Bri2020 said:

(inner voice: "I will not buy skates, I will not buy skates, I shouldn't buy skates, I shouldn't buy skates, skating sounds like so much fun, I will not buy skates, I will not buy skates.........")

 

Weird. Your inner voice sounds a lot like mine whenever I hear "Roller Derby."

 

Hugs!

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15 hours ago, Elizabeth Star said:

I just love those leggings.

 

I just noticed you backpack matches your watch.

Thank you!  My purse does too!

 

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4 hours ago, Bri2020 said:

Today's a punky, wet, just above freezing day so going with "snuggly" sweater option.  Later today I'm meeting some girlfriends at a LGBTQ+ friendly Skate Shop that just moved to the area so one of them can get all fitted out. We actually have a roller derby crowd here which is what the shop is known for.  (inner voice: "I will not buy skates, I will not buy skates, I shouldn't buy skates, I shouldn't buy skates, skating sounds like so much fun, I will not buy skates, I will not buy skates.........")

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First:  I love that outfit!  I want to find some pants with the flare/bellbottom cuff.  Outside of it just being nice, it’s really working well on that look.  
Second:  That shirt style is fantastic!  I must try that!  Where did you find that and is it a specific kind of style?

Third:  I would so pay to see you roller derby! There was an episode of the Netflix show Lucifer featuring a roller derby team, and I imagine you as the “tough as nails, take no nonsense” derby girl boss. 🤗

 

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4 minutes ago, Elizabeth Star said:

Just overstating the obvious.

 

That shirt is AWESOME.

 

Hugs!

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5 hours ago, Lenneth said:

Thank you!  My purse does too!

 

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First:  I love that outfit!  I want to find some pants with the flare/bellbottom cuff.  Outside of it just being nice, it’s really working well on that look.  
Second:  That shirt style is fantastic!  I must try that!  Where did you find that and is it a specific kind of style?

Third:  I would so pay to see you roller derby! There was an episode of the Netflix show Lucifer featuring a roller derby team, and I imagine you as the “tough as nails, take no nonsense” derby girl boss. 🤗

 

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I don't think I would be the tough as nails type.  I cry when I break a nail now.  I think my name would be "not your Daddy"

1 hour ago, Elizabeth Star said:

Just overstating the obvious. 
 

 

OMG.  I need that shirt.

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2 hours ago, Elizabeth Star said:

Just overstating the obvious. 
 

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Want shirt.  Must have.  😂  That is amazing Lizzy!

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23 hours ago, Bri2020 said:

"I will not buy skates, I will not buy skates, I shouldn't buy skates, I shouldn't buy skates, skating sounds like so much fun, I will not buy skates, I will not buy skates........."

I would only damage what is left of my body.

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On 2/24/2022 at 9:15 AM, Bri2020 said:

 (inner voice: "I will not buy skates, I will not buy skates, I shouldn't buy skates, I shouldn't buy skates, skating sounds like so much fun, I will not buy skates, I will not buy skates.........")


You could at least try on a pair. 

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17 hours ago, Elizabeth Star said:

Just overstating the obvious. 
 

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Wow. You must be a platinum rewards member at the Trans HQ gift shop. ;)

Well done!

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20 hours ago, Elizabeth Star said:

Just overstating the obvious. 
 

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OMG Liz I love that shirt I want one, where did you get it.

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Brunch anyone?

It turns out this ended up being a throwback outfit for me. I got an invite for brunch today and it's been a minute since I got dressed up and made up so:  This is an older dress sold through JP Penny that was actually my first dress purchased after coming out. (poshmark) It came with the cardigan. I paired it up with my oxblood knee high boots (first tall boots) and some rose colored freshwater pearls. (a gift from my staff when they threw me a gender reveal party the week I came out) Brunch was lovely.

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7 minutes ago, Bri2020 said:

Brunch anyone?

It turns out this ended up being a throwback outfit for me. I got an invite for brunch today and it's been a minute since I got dressed up and made up so:  This is an older dress sold through JP Penny that was actually my first dress purchased after coming out. (poshmark) It came with the cardigan. I paired it up with my oxblood knee high boots (first tall boots) and some rose colored freshwater pearls. (a gift from my staff when they threw me a gender reveal party the week I came out) Brunch was lovely.

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Oh my god!  @Bri2020!  Girl!  That look is gorgeous!  How much was that dress!  That is just a stellar look!  You got the hair and jewelry just cherry on the top.  It just looks good on you! 🤗

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20 minutes ago, Lenneth said:

 

Oh my god!  @Bri2020!  Girl!  That look is gorgeous!  How much was that dress!  That is just a stellar look!  You got the hair and jewelry just cherry on the top.  It just looks good on you! 🤗

Thank you love.  I think I paid somewhere between $25-$35 for it. Poshmark is pretty awesome. You just have to be  OK with buying things without trying them on.  That's challenging for us girls, especially early on in transitioning or pre-transition (medical that is) I prefer to thrift for that reason but I wasn't as comfortable shopping in person back then and I wanted a nice dress for work. As you can see from this photo of the first time I wore it to work 2 years ago the dress helped create an illusion of boobs and longer legs with the high waist gathers.  I think I had a "sports bra" on with an extra pad insert  to give some shape. And wow, I wasn't too good at makeup those first months. I tended to put too much on to help cover the beard shadow. lol. Now I can get away with much less since electrolysis has drastically reduced the beard.

 

 

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30 minutes ago, Lenneth said:

 

Oh my god!  @Bri2020!  Girl!  That look is gorgeous!  How much was that dress!  

I stand corrected, I just looked up my poshmark history. $15!!!

This is a similar concept just more summer colors and jacket instead of sweater.  $25

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1 hour ago, Bri2020 said:

Thank you love.  I think I paid somewhere between $25-$35 for it. Poshmark is pretty awesome. You just have to be  OK with buying things without trying them on.  That's challenging for us girls, especially early on in transitioning or pre-transition (medical that is) I prefer to thrift for that reason but I wasn't as comfortable shopping in person back then and I wanted a nice dress for work. As you can see from this photo of the first time I wore it to work 2 years ago the dress helped create an illusion of boobs and longer legs with the high waist gathers.  I think I had a "sports bra" on with an extra pad insert  to give some shape. And wow, I wasn't too good at makeup those first months. I tended to put too much on to help cover the beard shadow. lol. Now I can get away with much less since electrolysis has drastically reduced the beard.

 

 

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This is still a fantastic look!  Honestly, I haven’t really dived into the world of makeup yet.  I feel I’ll either wind up looking like a joke, a drunk harlequin trying to look pretty, or just stupid.

 

 

 

Clip is from the movie “The Quiet.”  Any questions about it can be sent to me and are welcome.
 

I battle with that beard shadow hard.  I haven’t gotten to a place where electrolysis is a feasibly regular option.  It’s worst around the entire goatee area.  I haven’t cut myself exactly, but I have drug the razor pretty hard trying to scrape off every piece of stubble and bristle I could feel.  Still can’t get it all.  I tend to cling to masks to cover up.  To the extent of just taking them off between bites at restaurants, taken at downward angles away from lines of sight.  Frankly I can’t see any beard anything there.  So if you’re bad at makeup there, you’re a virtuoso now, I’d imagine!

 

Quick aside?  Loving that necklace.  Shoes too.  I am not super comfortable with showing my toes yet.  @Katie Mmentioned a manicure in an earlier post and I am interested for sure, but I have thought of a pedicure as well to start getting them cleaned up and presentable.

 

I am currently running with the sports bra solution as well.  It already has a small pad in it, then I line with 4 more pads on each side.  Comes out to a large A or small B.  I like the shape it winds up with.

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Headed to a party. The theme is "emo." Emo happened after I was adulting so... did I do it right?

 

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10 minutes ago, Jackie C. said:

Headed to a party. The theme is "emo." Emo happened after I was adulting so... did I do it right?

 

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Oooo!  Love it!  I couldn't pull it off.  @Elizabeth Star is my pick for resident expert with any looks in that ballpark.  She's got some awesome stuff.  I say 10 out of 10!  🦄

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