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By Heather Shay · Posted
1983 - Jim Gordon US session drummer Jim Gordon murdered his mother during a psychotic episode. Diagnosed schizophrenic during his 1984 trial, Gordon was sentenced to 16 years-to-life in prison. A Grammy Award winner for co-writing Layla with Eric Clapton, Gordon worked with The Beach Boys, John Lennon, George Harrison Frank Zappa and many other artists.. Jim Gordan also was in Traffic and Derek and The Dominoes and received writers credit for the piano part in "Layla". 1967 - The Doors The Doors 'Light My Fire' was released in the US, where it went on to be No.1 on the singles chart two months later. When The Doors were booked to appear on The Ed Sullivan Show they were asked to change the line "girl, we couldn't get much higher", as the sponsors were uncomfortable with the possible reference to drug-taking. The band agreed to do so, and did a rehearsal using the amended lyrics; however, during the live performance, lead singer Jim Morrison sang the original lyric, after which they were informed they would never appear on the Ed Sullivan show again. I remember being in my mother's yard doing lawn work when I first heard the song when it was first released. 1964 - Ringo Starr During a photo session Ringo Starr was taken ill suffering from tonsillitis and pharyngitis, days before a world tour was about to start. After a last-minute phone call from George Martin, session drummer Jimmy Nichol rushed over to EMI Studios, where he and The Beatles ran through six songs from their tour repertoire in a quick rehearsal. Nichol replaced Ringo and became a Beatle for eleven days. This didn't get much press so I didn't know about it then but learned about it as I researched the group when I played Paul McCartney in a tribute band in my old life. I am much happy now though I miss playing out with a full electric band. -
By Betty K · Posted
Last I heard, trans men were actually at higher risk of violent assault than trans women, though it was more commonly intimate partner violence. Trans women, on the other hand, were murdered at a higher rate. Unfortunately I can’t find that source atm, but the following source states that, while trans people are four times more likely than cis people to be victims of violent crime, the difference in rates of violence against trans men and trans women is negligible. Actually, looking at the stats cited, trans men are slightly more likely to experience violent crime. That said, it’s not a competition. We all have it hard in some ways, just not always in the same ways. https://williamsinstitute.law.ucla.edu/press/ncvs-trans-press-release/ -
By LucyF · Posted
Yep - its a tactic to divide peoples opinions and get people concentrating on issues other than the one that the current government are responsible for. Thing is, we represent 0.01% of the population, so there are really focussing on a non-issue. Its like saying Jimmy Saville, the white middle aged TV presenter was bad, so we need to ban all white middle aged men from TV. Its ridiculous. Thankfully, the huge majority of the UK public also see these things as non-issues so and with the election coming up, hopefully nothing will change. -
By tracy_j · Posted
They are trying to vote catch in any way they can at the moment. Their views on bringin back in national service are so much of a joke although propaganda will do doubt hook them a few. I suspect the armed forces are cringing. No doubt, in the US, you have a number of similar things going on. Tracy -
By Carolyn Marie · Posted
https://www.theguardian.com/society/article/2024/jun/02/tories-will-allow-bars-on-trans-women-says-kemi-badenoch?CMP=share_btn_url The conservatives in the U.K. have adopted the American GOP playbook and are intending to ban trans folk, in particular trans women, from the public square. Erasure is a stated goal of theirs now. It is a sad thing to see. Carolyn Marie -
By awkward-yet-sweet · Posted
Interesting. But.... doesn't going through this court case fix the reputation aspect by itself? I mean, all they have to do is print off a copy of the news story/court proceedings. "Hey look, a judge and jury said it wasn't true." And since there's no criminal history, it doesn't affect a background check. As for not getting "any" work...really? I've known some extremely squirrelly people to get good jobs, including actual molesters/abusers with real history that can be found on a background check. How possible is it to prove a negative statement such as "I can't get any work" in court? Perhaps if this person lives in a small town where nobody knows they do drag-queen stuff on the side, being outed could cause issues. But is that a factor that was considered in this case? And isn't being outed if you've got a "secret drag queen life" a risk that simply goes along with that activity? I would be interested to see the proof of loss the jury received. Is that usually a public document, or sealed? -
By VickySGV · Posted
Best of luck with all good fortune for the healing of those feelings. -
By VickySGV · Posted
Eighteen years is not nearly long enough if your reputation has been damaged to the extent that you will absolutely never get employment of ANY SORT and your potential work life is 30 years. Even people in Trades work do not want to hire you at the lowest sweeper levels. You cannot work in some fields where you are professionally licensed (and you lose the licenses as well) because you work with actual minors. We are not told what the person's "Day Job" really was in this case but Drag performance is NOT a job any time to get rich on unless you get a full fledged entertainment contract like RuPaul. My friends here that do Family rated Drag performance cannot live on it and have other highly responsible jobs in other parts of the entertainment industry or some other fields To come up with that figure, actual proof of loss must be given to the jury and they must accept it if it meets the Preponderance Of The Evidence rule for Common Law levels. $51K per year would be the salary of a Teacher or even Licensed Vocational Nurses neither of which could be filled by a person required to registered as a child molester or abuser as this was. The $250K punitive damages were the lesser of the awards so this overall verdict was based on sworn and verified evidence of the amount of actual damage. My 40 year career was in the legal system where I had to know courts and the law system including slander and libel. -
By EasyE · Posted
Gender rarely enters my dreams. I dream a lot about traveling and being on a journey somewhere. Recently, I did dream that I was out in public wearing one of my female sleepwear items. I remember thinking I had better get inside before someone saw me. -
By KayC · Posted
Hi @NoEli6 - Thank you for sharing your story and concerns over your feelings. I cannot give you statistics or even a valued opinion on the difference in MtF and FtM experiences and who faces the most challenges - But from my own life experience and my personal unique Trans journey I can say this - I think we ALL as humans bring our own baggage and unique challenges with us ... and the vast majority of that has nothing to do with our Transgender identity. Everybody ... Every Body ... will face their own unique obstacles and fears, but also their own unique victories and growth. This is what Life is ... and what is most noble is when we can live as our true authentic selves and celebrate and support others in the same way. So ... I hope you can let go of your concerns, embrace others with their own peculiar (and sometimes harmful) faults. Live your Life as you are. And please stay with us and share your experiences with others. This is what we call Community. -
By KayC · Posted
Happy Pride everyone!! (my first year to be able to openly participate) -
By KayC · Posted
Great statement of support!! Thank you @Carolyn Mariefor sharing. -
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By MaeBe · Posted
Thank you for sharing your story with us, Kay! It’s not nonsense of which you write! I am glad to hear your family is with you. It truly is wonderful having support at home. 💜Mae
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