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Oh wow it is so easy to feel like a slug now that I really can't go out!  I did go out for a short trip today. (YEAH!)  Needed a battery in my truck so I ordered online and when I got to the store a guy came out to place it in the trunk and take the old one away.  So much for human interaction!  I'll install it tomorrow.  I noted that I'm getting 4 weeks per gallon in my car now! 

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I am so busy at work these days, I wish that I could post more. Good Morning! Enjoy your coffee and hugs to all of you as I get ready and dash out the door!

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Hey everyone, 

 

I work collections for a bank. Loans. We are so busy! I signed up for overtime all this week and 4 hrs on Sat. It will be long days but I need to make up for the government taking the money that was suppose to be used to help me and gave it to my ex. The check was for 1700 and 1305 given to her. I still haven’t got the remaining in my account? I’m going to call and find out why. It wasn’t I wasn’t paying. I have money coming out of my check every check. I was backed up when I didn’t have a job for 2 months. 
 

These days are hard but I have established ways to make working at home easier. I play movies in the background. Each movie last certain hours. So I know when I’m getting close to ending my shift. Customers can’t hear as long as I keep the volume down. Yesterday I watched the full Divergent Series. Also recently bough 3 dresses. I can wear what I want without anyone judging me. That’s a plus! 
 

I’m talking to this person also. At one time I wanted to get romantically involved with them. We are texting every night. This person does not know about my female side though. I don’t know how they would react. Something I have to think about I know. Paying as many bills as I can. 
 

Writing stories and watching movies and shows small walks seem to be working. Now that I will be working 8am to 7pm. There won’t be much time to fill. This is actually a good thing. I know I will need to be careful about job burnout especially since all you hear is sad stories. 

Tessa is doing her part by helping. I hope you are well and doing good! Talking on this site helps because people do reply. I have friends here. Thank you 

 

Love Tessa?‍?
 

 


 

 

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Hi Tessa, I'm on break at work and finally brought the website up on my phone. Make sure you practice self care, I get into overwhelm at work very easily. Especially with my long hours. I may take a hot bubble bath tonight and shave my legs. Take care!

 

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My husband and I not too happy this week.Two of our tow truck drivers ran 4 of the tow trucks out of diesel fuel.My son Tyler warned them they better fuel up them before it happened.He saw there was not much fuel in them,my husband and I knew he was telling the truth.With him,it is to the station to fuel up before going to the scene if the gauge reads low first.Had to bleed the air out of the fuel system which is a pain.

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30 minutes ago, Debra Michelle said:

My husband and I not too happy this week.Two of our tow truck drivers ran 4 of the tow trucks out of diesel fuel.My son Tyler warned them they better fuel up them before it happened.He saw there was not much fuel in them,my husband and I knew he was telling the truth.With him,it is to the station to fuel up before going to the scene if the gauge reads low first.Had to bleed the air out of the fuel system which is a pain.

Sounds completely normal that is an everyday occourance where I work lol.

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Woke up to 23 *F and 3-4" of blowing white out snow fall.  White knuckle driving to work and now sitting here wishing Id of stayed home.

I need a mental health day for sure.

Hope everyone is staying safe!

 

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32 minutes ago, ShawnaLeigh said:

Woke up to 23 *F and 3-4" of blowing white out snow fall.  White knuckle driving to work and now sitting here wishing Id of stayed home.

I need a mental health day for sure.

Hope everyone is staying safe!

 

You wouldn't get me on the roads in those conditions. That is one of my phobias, yes it is a mental condition. 

 

Well the thermometer on the fence is saying 60. It is direct sunlight. blue skies too.

Hope everyone stays safe and healthy today. Shawna drive safe going home.

 

Kymmie

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40 minutes ago, ShawnaLeigh said:

Woke up to 23 *F and 3-4" of blowing white out snow fall.  White knuckle driving to work and now sitting here wishing Id of stayed home.

I need a mental health day for sure.

Hope everyone is staying safe!

 

 

Ugh!  That's the kind of weather where I'd be happy to be on lockdown.

 

You are not that far from me.  I hope your weather isn't coming this way.  I have had enough snow for this winter.

 

Stay safe!

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32 minutes ago, KymmieL said:

Shawna drive safe going home.

My plan is to drive as fast as I can so I am not on the roads all that long.  LOL

One way or the other.

JK for those that don't know me.  LOL

 

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35 minutes ago, ShawnaLeigh said:

Well I am trained.  LOL

Haha there is no doubt about that. I will stick with sunshine and 65 degrees 

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56 right now, going to be 72 this afternoon! I'm going to break from my routine by having a second cup of coffee so I can sit out on my patio and drink it. I've been waiting all winter for the chance to do this!

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Jeez what a heck of a way to wake up.  Got woken up by my kids trying to open the front door and setting off the alarm system.  Got that taken care of and managed about another hour of sleep.  Then got up and got coffee to run out to the boys school to see about getting Chromebooks for them to do school work on.  Only to get told I have to come back on Friday for them.  

 

GRRR I need a LOT more coffee LOL.

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On 4/18/2020 at 6:09 PM, kelly sinclair said:

Oh kay up until  3 years ago we had three fast food places here and they were ROLLER  skates   them they stop something  to do with accident  .stop it they still were pretty  outfits now 

  Sorry, getting caught up, but I have only seen food getting brought out on roller skates in movies and old tv shows.  Its disapointing, that no one does it around here.

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Been a hard couple of days. My very close brother-in-law who has been ill with kidney failure over the past month died last evening of cardiac arrest.  He was extremely close to everyone in our family even though my sister (his late wife) died years ago. He was the person who indirectly started me on my path of transition by shedding light on my denial and telling me the family knows about me and they will accept me as I am.  This was all true. I will miss him. RIP Tom

 

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I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your brother-in-law, Susan.

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Susan, I am sorry you have lost someone so close to you.  May he rest in peace.

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I'm sorry for your family's loss Susan.  Take the time to think of him and smile.  He'll always be in your heart.  

 

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