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5 minutes ago, Mmindy said:

@April MarieI’m glad you are feeling better, and totally agree with the slower pace transition to allow our spouses time to adjust or transition with us. 
 

 

 

 

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Last night, we were watching a recorded episode of American Idol. One of the contestants talked about how much he loved his wife, stating that she had married a boy but made him into a man. My wife laughed and said "That's nothing. I married a boy, made him into a man and then he became a woman. We can handle anything!" My heart just glowed.

 

We ARE doing this right.

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7 minutes ago, April Marie said:

Last night, we were watching a recorded episode of American Idol. One of the contestants talked about how much he loved his wife, stating that she had married a boy but made him into a man. My wife laughed and said "That's nothing. I married a boy, made him into a man and then he became a woman. We can handle anything!" My heart just glowed.

 

We ARE doing this right.

Awww....❤️

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1 hour ago, April Marie said:

Last night, we were watching a recorded episode of American Idol. One of the contestants talked about how much he loved his wife, stating that she had married a boy but made him into a man. My wife laughed and said "That's nothing. I married a boy, made him into a man and then he became a woman. We can handle anything!" My heart just glowed.

 

We ARE doing this right.

Wow.

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I finally changed my profile picture - time to drop that wig and show the real me!! I'll keep growing it out until it gets at least to the length of my wig - I want to be able to put it up in a ponytail and I'm not quite there, yet. But, I love being able to rock my own hair!!

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16 minutes ago, April Marie said:

I finally changed my profile picture - time to drop that wig and show the real me!! I'll keep growing it out until it gets at least to the length of my wig - I want to be able to put it up in a ponytail and I'm not quite there, yet. But, I love being able to rock my own hair!!

Very nice.

 

I like my little duckling picture, but if anyone is wondering, that is not what I look like.  I decided to clarify that. But the attitude.....

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4 minutes ago, Abigail Genevieve said:

 

 

I like my little duckling picture, but if anyone is wondering, that is not what I look like.  I decided to clarify that. But the attitude.....

Too cute!!! 

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1 hour ago, April Marie said:

I love being able to rock my own hair!!

That's great @April Marie,

 

I'm so happy that your wife accepted the challenge and is there for you.

 

Hugs,

 

Mindy🌈🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋

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4 hours ago, April Marie said:

My wife laughed and said "That's nothing. I married a boy, made him into a man and then he became a woman. We can handle anything!" My heart just glowed.

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Love, love, love!

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On 4/3/2024 at 6:35 PM, Mmindy said:

Good evening Rachel,

 

Congratulations on selling your house, and your up coming surgery. I hope taking off a couple of weeks gives you time to recharge, and feel better.

 

Hugs,

 

Mindy🌈🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋

thankyou just got my internet back on today from the storm we HAD ON THE 4. AND YES I AM TAKING 3 WEEKS OFF

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Hi, I’m back

 

@MaeBe @Ashley0616 @April Marie and @Mmindy and everyone else, my wife says thank you for the birthday wishes. 
 

It was a busy day at work today.  Once things settled down a little, I went outside and washed the windows.  My Manager was very happy with how much better they looked.  And no ladders were involved. Just my personal window washing gear.  Now that they are clean (for only the second time in a year and both by me) I would like to wash them with some Rainex instead of just window cleaner.  We sell gallon jugs of Rainex windshield washer fluid and I think using that next time might help keep rain spots off the windows.  
 

we are going out to J Peter’s for dinner tonight. We both like it so it’s a winner.  It’s a local restaurant with several locations. 
 

time to feed and walk the dog.

 

Tomorrow is a 4am day.  I like the work of the 4am shift I just wish it was later.  The again it’s nice to get home by 12 noon

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Thank you    Here is a up date all went well was back home by noon time feeling really good just chilling out,  I was able to kind of get my sister on board with me and it feels so good she is trying and i told her I am very proud of her to try to under stand she wants to no know so that is a step forward. she also drove me to the hospital.  thank you all for just being here

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Well I had an interview with the local Ford Dealership for an opening in the parts dept. It sounded positive. I was told I would here by tomorrow morning. :thumbsup:

 

Other than that just sticking around the house. I haven't done much, the weather is cold and yucky. Doesn't look like good weather till Sunday. Maybe tomorrow I'll fire up the heater in the garage and see about getting the other brake hose put on the Explorer.

 

Have a good rest of your day/evening.

 

Hugs,

Kymmie

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Been a good long day for me.Got everything done I worked on.Been getting customers that want me to work on their trucks only and my boss is cool about it.A construction company,seen I do good work and do not leave a grease mark in the interior.I keep tub o towels on my tool box.Had a good supper when I got home,a grilled pork steak with a potatoe and green beans

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Good luck @KymmieL

 

 

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I went to work with my husband today.  He asked me this morning if I wanted to go...of course I said yes.  I enjoy being with him, and getting away from the house for a little while.  He spent half the day in his office, which I think is why he asked me along.  He made a nest in the corner for me, where I can plug in my laptop and do my stuff...nobody minds me being there.  

 

But today ended up with a strange opportunity.  I had a conversation with my husband's boss, the company owner.  They want some basic graphic design work done, so I think they might hire me to do it.  Nothing fancy, not nearly as complicated as what I've attempted to do for our county.  So I have a meeting with them on Monday, just to look at some details and see if I can do the work they want.  And especially talk about when they need it done, because I still work pretty slowly.  I don't really need or want the money, but its nice to feel like I can do something again. 

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Had a new neighbor come over last night and we talked getting to know each other more.Saw there was something about me when we first met.Nice to me and I did tell her I am transgender.Then she opened up to me,said she is like me.Her name is Natalie,she lives and dresses as female since she was 23.Said since she was 5 years old as a little boy,alway liked the feminine clothing and had the dream of wearing them.Like me,she lost her parents at age 23 whom were very controlling of her and knew it was time let the inner woman side of her to come out.She is married to a very supportive wife,wife loves it.

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@awkward-yet-sweet, good for you! I hope it works out. We all know about the three basic things required for happiness; someone to love, something to do and something to look forward to. You've just ticked a couple of boxes there!

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8 hours ago, awkward-yet-sweet said:

its nice to feel like I can do something again. 

This sounds really good.  Good luck with it.

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Just now, Adrianna Danielle said:

I will be meeting her wife tonight

How exciting! Have a glorious evening!

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4 hours ago, MaeBe said:

How exciting! Have a glorious evening!

Will be at my place

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Well it is a no go for the new position. OH, well. nothing ventured nothing gained.

 

Kymmie

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1 hour ago, KymmieL said:

Well it is a no go for the new position. OH, well. nothing ventured nothing gained.

 

Kymmie

I'm sorry! :( Hopefully something better will come up

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