Real Life Test Discussions
A place to discuss transition: legal, workplace, name change, driver's license issues, and more. Tips and tricks on getting through a year or two as another gender.
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By Mmindy · Posted
Good morning everyone, I’m sitting at my gate waiting to board a jet ✈️ home. Happy Mother’s Day. Hugs, Mindy🌈🐛🏳️⚧️🦋🏳️🌈❤️ -
By Birdie · Posted
@Ladypcnj, I found finding a doctor with a good understanding of "intersex" is quite challenging. My current doctor lectured me about the dangers of the testosterone treatments I underwent as a teenager, yet I had no choice in the matter as it was orchestrated by my parents and a sports doctor (I would have never done it in my own). Having "extra parts" inside and their first suggestion is to remove them because they "might" become cancerous. I'm sorry, but no one is going to remove my uterus unless there is a clear reason to do so. Then being referred to a psychiatrist to "treat" my gender dysphoria? Other than a diagnosis of intersex, I find most doctors today are quite vague in understanding how to treat things. It's not something that need fixing, but rather understanding, and each individual case is special. I know who and what I am, my current care team fails to grasp that. -
By Heather Shay · Posted
Welcome. I know the pain of misgendering, the best way to feel better is to work on yourself and self-acceptance as we still have the curse of the body not matching the brain and although we can make some physical changes we still have to work with what wee have. I also agree that you are still young and you have not gone through all the changes yet your body will. So hang in there. -
By Heather Shay · Posted
agree with the ladies above. Comfort and trust are important, especially with health care. If you don't feel comfortable even if it isn't with a specialist, although that would be preferred. -
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By Heather Shay · Posted
Fear of emotions, also known as emotion phobia, is when someone is unsure how to understand, regulate, or comfort their emotions. Some signs of fear of emotions include: Developing a pessimistic outlook, Avoiding activities or people, Experiencing big outbursts of anger or tears, Struggling to sleep, and Being irritable to be around.Although there are many reasons we might suppress our emotions, one of them is that we are afraid of our emotions. Fear of emotions is called “animotophobia. It is not an official term in the DSM-5-TR. Still, fearing your emotions can have a significant impact on your well-being. -
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By Heather Shay · Posted
Even if you are estranged - think kindly of your mother today- because of her, you are here today. -
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By LittleSam · Posted
At 22 your body will still be changing. You say you've been on T for 6 years. Some trans guys say they fully masculinise around the 10 yr mark. I have a cis bro who is soon to be 30. He's changed alot in 5 years, a full beard, deeper voice . Of course hes cis so it's different, but his body was still changing at that age. Sorry for what you're going through. I'm short too at just under 5"2. -
By awkward-yet-sweet · Posted
Dump that doctor! A doctor is a HIRED SERVICE PROFESSIONAL. No more "holy" than a mechanic, a plumber, or anybody else in the trades. Just like anybody else you hire, if they have a bad attitude or do crap quality work, get rid of them ASAP. It amazes me how in the USA we don't have clear prices related to medical services, and how people will put up with crap from a doctor that they wouldn't from anybody else. And it seems that doctors give bad service at approximately the same rate as other tradespeople. Good help is hard to find! Your body is more important than your car or your bathtub. Don't be afraid to assert yourself. -
By awkward-yet-sweet · Posted
I can't do that for myself...my partners do that for me. I guess I'm damaged goods. I think part of me never totally grew up, because I'm not able to do adulting on my own. There's no "wise parent" part of me because I didn't get here on my own. I was stuck in my parents' house until GF rescued me. Before age 26, my parents made all my decisions. After age 26, I maybe decide some things, but mostly GF or my husband take care of it. I need my partners around to remember even the basic stuff, like sleeping and eating at reasonable times. Solo, I'm totally lost. -
By awkward-yet-sweet · Posted
Now that I think about it, part of why I enjoy my noisy family so much is because I don't have to have much of an inner life. I don't really like being left to my own thoughts....all that mess in my brain. Maybe better to have an active outer life than an inner one? -
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