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The women at the salon today were wonderful! *Happy Dance*

Oops, I hear thunder starting up outside....

Bye for now!

Great news. cool.gif

Glad to hear you had a good time.

and lol ive been hearin thunder for the last 3 days.

i know the log off and shut down drill all too well. laugh.gif

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This month I want to go to the LGBT Assembly on campus. I think I'll introduce myself as my male nickname, but I'm unsure what to say I am, because even though I know I'm an androgyne, I don't know how exactly I want to be perceived for the rest of my life... like what marker I want on my driver's license... but I'm tempted to just say I'm male, because I think I would prefer that than to be perceived female (though the campus's lack of gender neutral bathrooms, including where the assembly will be held, isn't cool). Or at the very least, I could see how that goes, since I'm used to hanging around all my friends that perceive me female, and it'd be nice to be perceived... not female.

Maybe if I'm lucky they just won't ask. At least, not directly. I don't know. It's just, I have a chance to introduce myself to people without the influence of any previous friends or family, so it's like a fresh start, but I don't know how to start. Kind of nervous about it all.

I'd really like to actually talk to some people, maybe get involved with LGBTQIAP events... instead of just... wandering around in the background like I tend to do in new and unfamiliar situations... =(

^_^ Sounds like the perfect opportunity to find out a little more about yourself. If you identify to them as androgyne, the door's still open to identify as male, if that would make you more comfortable. Either way, I hope you find where and how you're comfortable with other people.

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Today has been the best day since I found out I was trans. !

It was a day of god nws and more good news. and a day of sharing with people I love.

It was also cooler and will be 66 tonight!!

Tonight life is good!

I feel so amazed that about that.

Love!

JJ

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JJ, you were overdue for a day like that. Hope they continue!

Am anxious about meeting a new doctor today and asking about HRT. Would at least like to get started on Spiro as my BP is still up, even with the med I have been taking.

Huggs all!

Opal

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Good luck on your Dr visit -we'll be keeping you in and thought and pulling for you. Please let us know when you get back!

Huggs

JJ

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Today has been the best day since I found out I was trans. !

It was a day of good news and more good news. and a day of sharing with people I love.

Love!

JJ

LOL...That's great news in itself!

Am anxious about meeting a new doctor today and asking about HRT. Would at least like to get started on Spiro as my BP is still up, even with the med I have been taking.

Huggs all!

Opal

Well, Opal...I certainly hope that you can get started on Spiro...that will slkow down all that T and give the Estrogen a place to start...

Let us know what happens...ok?

Huggs

Donna Jean

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Thank you Micha! No Spiro yet, my BP decided to be fairly close to normal today. Did find a pretty sympathetic doctor today, but that is as about as far as it went.

Next week I may know more. Breathe in, breathe out, relax....

Huggs all!

Opal

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Thank you Micha! No Spiro yet, my BP decided to be fairly close to normal today. Did find a pretty sympathetic doctor today, but that is as about as far as it went.

Next week I may know more. Breathe in, breathe out, relax....

Huggs all!

Opal

Well, Dang it.

Yeah...go for next week...

Fingers crossed for you...

Huggs

Donna Jean

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Just wanted to say Hi to everybody. It feels funny when I'm away even for a morning!

Dee Jay-I just bought probably 7 or 8 dozen huge mature moss rose plants for around my pond for $1.00 total and a couple of mature coxcombs for 1/2 that-I love bargains. They will be perfect for around the koi ponds!

I also got my first pairs of boxers!:D I'm inching down that road.

JJ

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Just wanted to say Hi to everybody. It feels funny when I'm away even for a morning!

Dee Jay-I just bought probably 7 or 8 dozen huge mature moss rose plants for around my pond for $1.00 total and a couple of mature coxcombs for 1/2 that-I love bargains. They will be perfect for around the koi ponds!

I also got my first pairs of boxers!:D I'm inching down that road.

JJ

OMG! I'd LOVE to come and help you plant all of those moss roses...

But, you're on your own with the boxers.... :P

LOVE YOU!

Dee Jay

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OMG! I'd LOVE to come and help you plant all of those moss roses...

But, you're on your own with the boxers.... :P

LOVE YOU!

Dee Jay

Please do come help me plant!!

I looked at the size on the boxers wrong but they're the plaid kind and are apparently in style for girls as shorts-so my daughter is thrilled and wearing them w/ a long t-shirt as I type.

But I also found some bargain men's t-shirts and polos -and a pair of unisex Dr martins so I'm still a happy camper:D

not to mention we hit the farmer's market and will have fried green tomatoes and some baked okra for supper. A man there was so charmed by my granddaughter he insisted on giving her a watermelon! Wouldn't let us pay for it. That kind of thing used to happen all the time-in stores, restaurants, etc. but hasn't as much the past year or so. She has this charisma-kind of scary in a way.

And I had a half a big old honeydew melon for lunch.

Life is good today!!

Love you too!

JJ

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Watch out for those thorns on those rose bushes!

Huggs and Hugs,

Opal

The thing about moss roses is there aren't any thorns and they like heat and don't have to be watered!

They're usually $5-$7 a plant here and I got probably 80 or more for $1. A once in a lifetime plant bargain I just stumbled onto where someone had just brought them in to the hospital auxiliary.

Not where I got the boxers-but they did have the new Dr Martins and tons of clothes just in for the whole family.

Some days just work and make up for the others when you want to turn off the phone and hide under the bed

Huggs

JJ

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I'm tired of being the good guy.

The guy people think is respectable and a good person.

Because I'm tired.

And I'm feeling short tempered and angry.

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I'm tired of being the good guy.

The guy people think is respectable and a good person.

Because I'm tired.

And I'm feeling short tempered and angry.

Nobody is ever really "the good guy" that way.

It's too big a burden to carry. You have the right to be angry, to make mistakes -to be human.

I believe from what I have seen here you have a wealth of wonderful qualities and are a very decent-and yes intrinsically good person-but I know because you are human you also have flaws and faults and are entitled to them.

You have the right to express that anger-short of harming someone else or yourself. In fact it's more than a right-it's an imperative because unexpressed anger will get you eventually and harm you.

So snap at a few people who will understand when you're sorry later and get some rest if you can The world is certainly a much darker place when you are tired.

JJ

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Well I have a happy thing to share,

I am going to dinner tonight in Washington DC with three other Trans-Women and we are all very comfortable with who we are and we always have fun when we get together. Come on down if you want to join Us.

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Wanted to drop in and say hey yall.

We have my younger cousins with us, and they have been keepin me pretty busy.

Kickball, football, walkin, and our latest project: a music video. rolleyes.gif

The whole household has been pretty busy. and school has already started here, but we still dont know if they will be attending school here, or wherever their mom enrolls them.

I have mid terms this week in school. So far im doing good. passin both classes with A's. A 91 and a 97.

Still tryin to find a job, and may be seein my mom this weekend

She just got a new car, so I may be getting her's. Which is cool because i'll finally have a car of my own

and plan on makin it a project.

So thats my update for now.

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Uh, ok, so i went out a limb and asked my long time best friend to be my girl just now.

Long story short, we kinda had somethin a couple years ago, i had to move. been kinda ehhh... since.

She wont come straight out and tell me if she wants it to go any father than what it is, although i feel like we both know there is more to it.

I made the mistake of hurting her one time too many (which was the 1st time), and i think she is just scared to put down those walls and give it a shot.

Idk what came over me just now. but i told her give me a straight answer tonight and i wont ask no more.

so wish me luck.

Cowboy

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