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16 hours ago, Bri2020 said:

I'm no longer in a hurry to find someone. If it happens, it happens. In the meantime I have been enjoying developing richer friendships with all my girl friends. 

Good afternoon Bri,

I'm so happy for you, and glad you stopped by to update us on enjoying life with friends.

 

Hugs,

 

Mindy🌈🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋

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1 hour ago, Ivy said:

Sounds like a wild crowd !

They tend to act like a bunch of badly behaved teenagers. Except that they are adults that should know better.  After the vodka starts to flow, things begin to look like some of the Johnny Knoxville movies. 🙄 

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Welcome back home, @Bri2020 Congrats on the new home. I know myself that owning your own home is great. Able to do what you want to it.

 

For swimwear, I have a urban Camo one piece. high leg and backless. I put a pair of matching shorts over it and a t shirt. For my way down to the pool. Depending on who is their. t or shorts or both will come off. 

 

Just got back from shopping w the wife. She spotted the sun dresses. She found one of herself. Then asked if I wanted on. So, I got one in black. Then she helped me find some woman's shorts. I don't know about her sometimes.

 

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7 hours ago, Tiffany 838 said:

Ashley. Congratulations that is awsome.

 

everyone have a great day and weekend.  

Thank you!

 

I was productive again today and knocked out Social Security, Bank and auto insurance. Plenty of other places to do still but I'll get there. 

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33 minutes ago, KymmieL said:

I don't know about her sometimes.

That's great Kymmie,

I see it as a positive win.

 

Hugs,

 

Mindy🌈🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋

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2 minutes ago, Ashley0616 said:

I was productive again today and knocked out Social Security, Bank and auto insurance. Plenty of other places to do still but I'll get there.

Wow Ashley, You're on a mission, and doing well at it.

 

Hugs,

 

Mindy🌈🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋

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Five hanging in the closet and one on the girls, I'm building up my collection again. 😉

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On 7/6/2023 at 12:26 PM, Birdie said:

Wow, such a great day. My new skater dress came in. It's a bit on the large size but I'm sure it will shrink. 

I just love it💞 love the color too! 💞

 

Also my strapless push up bra arrived with it too. 

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I love the color, Birdie!!

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23 minutes ago, Birdie said:

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Five hanging in the closet and one on the girls, I'm building up my collection again. 😉

I hang mine in the closet, too!

Hugs,

Mychal 😉

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1 minute ago, Mychal said:

I love the color, Birdie!!

Yes, it goes so well with my strawberry blonde hair. 💞

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43 minutes ago, Mmindy said:

Wow Ashley, You're on a mission, and doing well at it.

 

Hugs,

 

Mindy🌈🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋

Thank you

 

35 minutes ago, Birdie said:

Awesome job Ashley! 💞

Thank you. I do have to wait till the new social security card comes in which will take two weeks before I can completely update VA information. After that thank goodness Illinois allows me to change my birth certificate. 

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Then this morning a neighbor came over, looking for any kind of help for a teenage relative, who is trans and suicidal.

 

The neighbor had noticed some changes in me over the last few years and knows our family is LGBTQ friendly, I was able to point them to a center closer to where the family in question lives (the other end of the state from us). But just hearing the story of the trans kid's struggles was quite emotional, all the struggles with being a teenager and trans even in a blue state plus health insurance issues too. Ugh. 

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18 hours ago, RhondaS said:

Then this morning a neighbor came over, looking for any kind of help for a teenage relative, who is trans and suicidal.

 

The neighbor had noticed some changes in me over the last few years and knows our family is LGBTQ friendly, I was able to point them to a center closer to where the family in question lives (the other end of the state from us). But just hearing the story of the trans kid's struggles was quite emotional, all the struggles with being a teenager and trans even in a blue state plus health insurance issues too. Ugh. 

Yikes I hope they find someone soon that can give them help.

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Good afternoon,

 

Just back from the mall and I'm out in the apartment lobby. I was met by a neighbor that made it "very clear to me" that she gave all her Disney memorabilia away because Disney supports trans people and as she put it, "they are all pedophiles".  

 

I had such a nice day window shopping today only to have some ignorant neighbor come get in mypop face and ruin it. 😐

 

Birdie

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Today is going to be a lazy day for the most part. I do have to do some cleaning but other than that just chatting on here and listening to music.

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1 hour ago, Birdie said:

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maybe I'll add a couple of photos in my pink tank top make me feel better. 💞

Looking good, girl!

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3 minutes ago, Mychal said:

Looking good, girl!

Thanks hun! 💞

I take that as a major compliment coming from a fashion expert as yourself. 😉

Dressing up sure makes a girl feel better 💞💋💞

 

Birdie💞

 

 

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4 hours ago, Birdie said:

she gave all her Disney memorabilia away because Disney supports trans people and as she put it, "they are all pedophiles".  

This is all so stupid.

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1 minute ago, Ivy said:

This is all so stupid.

Yes it is! What an ignorant neighbor I have. 😐

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3 hours ago, Birdie said:

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maybe I'll add a couple of photos in my pink tank top make me feel better. 💞

Nice

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2 hours ago, Birdie said:

Dressing up sure makes a girl feel better 💞💋💞

 

 

 

 

Amen to that!!! 

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What a weekend 🙄. I've been stuck looking after GF's kids all night and day.  I love them, but I am worn out enough that I think it may be a good thing that I can't reproduce.  I'm out of patience. 

 

Five little blonde carbon copies of her....today I can't see how they got any genes from their father.  While GF is hanging out with her crazy friends and making mischief, her offspring do the same.  No idea how I can possibly keep them in line when they're older. 😭

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Good morning everyone! I'm into my normal morning routine did a lot of outside work around our home yesterday so I slept well. Dogs have been walked and fed and I've already had my first cup of coffee. 

 

I'm still in the extended period of "April in Drag" with family visiting. I can feel the dysphoria nipping at my brain. Keeping my focus on one day at a time. And trying to stop the binge eating. Ugh. The struggle is real. 🙃

 

Be safe out there and remember to find the goodness in this beautiful day we've been given. I promise I will.

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