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10 hours ago, Ann W said:

I am in SoCal Bri, near the Channel Islands in fact, so a selfie could be in our future.

❤️🐠  that’s where I learned to dive.   Selfies and street tacos!!!

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My post today is not so much about what I'm wearing as it is about how much effort I put into what I am going to wear.  I'm off to a conference where I will be spending three days.  I just finished packing and because I wanted lots of options available to me while I'm there, I have three suitcases and a hanging bag.  I'm pretty sure this is overkill , but hey, a girl has to have wardrobe choices, right?

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8 minutes ago, Sally Stone said:

My post today is not so much about what I'm wearing as it is about how much effort I put into what I am going to wear.  I'm off to a conference where I will be spending three days.  I just finished packing and because I wanted lots of options available to me while I'm there, I have three suitcases and a hanging bag.  I'm pretty sure this is overkill , but hey, a girl has to have wardrobe choices, right?

I think that's actually a law.

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U might be pushing it Sally. Lol. I felt like I was overpacking by filling one large suitcase for 2 night stay. Lol

well, I upgraded to 1st class since I knew I would be uncomfortable today given the bottom electrolysis.  So unpacked a nice maxi dress and Tory B cardigan. Camel suede ankle boots finish things. 

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14 hours ago, Maddee said:

You’re my superFC2AAF20-1F1E-452C-A81B-4AE1CC37F5A6.thumb.jpeg.c63c4f672bb7516a9573cd0c1f65264b.jpeghero

 

I’ve been lying down a lot

OMG...I love your little friend.  You both look so adorable.  You truly inspire me Maddee.

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6 hours ago, Sally Stone said:

I have three suitcases and a hanging bag.  I'm pretty sure this is overkill , but hey, a girl has to have wardrobe choices, right?

Sounds right to me. Who said you always have to travel light? Options, options, options.

Safe travels, and have a great time.

 

Mindy🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋

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6 hours ago, Sally Stone said:

My post today is not so much about what I'm wearing as it is about how much effort I put into what I am going to wear.  I'm off to a conference where I will be spending three days.  I just finished packing and because I wanted lots of options available to me while I'm there, I have three suitcases and a hanging bag.  I'm pretty sure this is overkill , but hey, a girl has to have wardrobe choices, right?

It sounds legit to me. My last trip was just one night but I packed 3 outfits, loungewear, sleepwear and 2 pair of shoes. That was in addition to what I was already wearing. I got to have options and the option to change multiple times throughout the day. 

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14 hours ago, Bri2020 said:

U might be pushing it Sally. Lol. I felt like I was overpacking by filling one large suitcase for 2 night stay. Lol

well, I upgraded to 1st class since I knew I would be uncomfortable today given the bottom electrolysis.  So unpacked a nice maxi dress and Tory B cardigan. Camel suede ankle boots finish things. 

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Even with a mask on, you look gorgeous ❤️

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On 3/25/2022 at 1:13 AM, Jamey said:

Even with a mask on, you look gorgeous ❤️

Aww thanks Jamey. 
today I’m feeling very 60s housewife. The ankle jeans have a pretty paisley pattern that is real subtle. I need to loose the few pounds I put on in the last couple weeks because these don’t quite fit anymore. Lol. Doing chores this morning and then house shopping.  Not gonna change outfits even if I go to a party tonight with girl friends

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Oh I love those pants!  The outfit as a whole is great, but I really love those pants.

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On 3/23/2022 at 9:19 PM, Maddee said:

You’re my superFC2AAF20-1F1E-452C-A81B-4AE1CC37F5A6.thumb.jpeg.c63c4f672bb7516a9573cd0c1f65264b.jpeghero

 

I’ve been lying down a lot

love it.

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26 minutes ago, Emily Michele said:

Just finished at the salon. Love it!!!

I LOVE that dress! You look fantastic!💜

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9 hours ago, Katie M said:

Let's be careful out there...🤣

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Yeah, I've found it way too often. It's too bad that the excess weight doesn't come off as easy as it went on. 🤨

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Going to the store has been really tough lately. All the new clothes are coming out now. If only my wallet was as big as my eyes. 😖

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3 hours ago, Emily Michele said:

Just finished at the salon. Love it!!!FCA32DE4-CBBF-422F-9F5A-BEE5B1911C49.thumb.jpeg.b4368f10330d9ae0bf88d9f0cf2e4d99.jpeg

OMG! You look amazing.

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On 3/24/2022 at 11:49 AM, Ann W said:

OMG...I love your little friend.  You both look so adorable.  You truly inspire me Maddee.

🌷

 

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I went with a slightly different style today. Still black though. I think I found my limit on heel height too. They're almost 6 inches tall.

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7 hours ago, Jamie68 said:

Yeah, I've found it way too often. It's too bad that the excess weight doesn't come off as easy as it went on. 🤨

My weight is a constant battle, I’ve kinda stayed around a size 16-18 over the last 12 months and feel comfortable. As you say it goes on much easier than it comes off. 
that said, I’m a curvy girl and like to wear my bikini on holidays.big thumbs up to the bigger ladies amongst us 😁

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Good morning everyone! I finally came out recently and have started experimenting with more gender affirming looks, like a little bit of makeup (eyeliner, mascara and lip crayon) and women's shirts, etc in public and am really feeling more like my true self. I am calling to make my initial appointment today to establish care with a gender care services MD that will start my journey to transitioning. I still don't know what all I plan to do, but at least I'm taking the first few steps finally. I hope you all have a blessed day! ❤️ 

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17 hours ago, Jamie68 said:

Yeah, I've found it way too often. It's too bad that the excess weight doesn't come off as easy as it went on. 🤨

stick with fish tacos. lower cal.  lol

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