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By Mmindy · Posted
While drinking my first cup of coffee, and watching the bird feeders. There were two woodpeckers on the suet block, the smaller one is very regular here. It’s a female Red-Bellied Woodpecker, the larger one is a rare visitor called a Common Flicker also female. I find that funny because she’s not been that common at my feeders. Mindy🐛🏳️⚧️🦋 -
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By Charlize · Posted
I have had a history of thinking gay folks would understand issues only to find they didn't. Perhaps that shows how different sexual preference is from gender. I don't know if my gay friends can truly understand gender issues just as i don't fully understand differences in the attractions that exist between people. Perhaps supporting others regardless of attraction or gender is the best we can do. Maybe a non-binary member can explain. I know that my life is filled with both male and female aspects. I choose to express and follow the feminine as I'm comfortable and at home here but for some a middle place may suit. Hugs, Charlize -
By Marcie Jensen · Posted
@Mmindy I love the cartoon! It's the perfect meme foe a cold winter day. -
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By Mmindy · Posted
Good morning everyone, It's 11°F clear, and the sun is just rising. The coffee is brewing, and I've started a fire in the shop wood stove. It's going to take a lot longer to be comfortable out there. My business partner is up from The Villages in Florida, he's under dressed for this weather. Fortunately for him he'll be spending the day with our CPA doing the business taxes. Yesterday he sat and watched me weld pipe hangers together, then assemble pipe sections for one of our training props. He was supersized when I passed him a hand held welding shield. He had never watched the welding process, and said it was like using a glue gun with sparks and molten metal. We discussed the future direction, and activity of the company as we're both getting older. Hugs for you all, Mindy🐛🏳️⚧️🦋 -
By Marcie Jensen · Posted
@Willow even if it doesn't work, how cool to have an antique clock that belonged to your grandfather!!!!!! And, the memories it must evoke. How awesome! -
By MomTGDaughter · Posted
I don't hear many taking about messaging the scalp which is what I have been doing for my m2f daughter who is 15 now. Along with her taking biotin, blockers and now estrogen, her hair is among the fullest of any girl is her class adn she has been able to grow it to her lower back. Best of luck to all of you, you can only try your best and make sure you can do all you can. -
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By awkward-yet-sweet · Posted
I identify with a lot of what you say. My parents just weren't affectionate with me. They were affectionate with my older brothers, and to some extent with my sister because she is the youngest, but I was mostly left out. My sister and I are very close, and we were each other's sources of physical contact and warmth. I didn't really have an idea of what normal parental affection looks like until joining my forever family and watching my husband and my female partners with their kids. As an adult (sort of....as I dislike adulting), I'm probably needy and codependent. When nervous, I immediately seek a partner to cling to and a lap to curl up on. I can't imagine the pain of a breakup...that kind of loss would not be something I could survive. -
By KymmieL · Posted
That got me thinking. I don't believe I had my parents tell me I Love you. When my mom started about 3 years ago. It seemed strange but nice. It seems that the love was there, just not open. My grandfather was the smartest man I have ever known. Showed me a lot. Being I was the only grandson. (I was back then, I guess.) I guess that my life has been screwed up for a while now. I just want to know where the rewind button is?? Anyone? Hugs to my friends, Kymmie -
By Carolyn Marie · Posted
First off, good on you to speak up and speak out, especially to folks who may or may not be allies or supportive of those under the trans umbrella. Doing so takes courage. I've spoken before audiences of primarily Gay & Lesbian folks, sometimes in a training setting, but sometimes in more casual situations. It really has depended on the setting and the kinds of questions I and other trans speakers receive. I try to explain about that "umbrella" business, and how that's much different than being either Gay or Lesbian; more amorphous, more controversial in some ways, and much less easier to define. Even trans folk can't agree on definitions. The important thing, for me, is stressing what we all have in common, and what our common goals are, and have always been; educating the general public, creating understanding, creating allies, reducing the hate. That's common ground, and that we should all be able to agree on. Carolyn Marie -
By Chanelta L. · Posted
There were always examples, but not like you see them today. Things were kept quiet and people lived their lives out of the public eye. That went for all alternative lifestyles. At the machine shop my dad worked for, and I later worked at, there was a Lesbian couple who ultimately retired from there. I knew of them since I was very young, and somewhat understood what was going on, but nothing was really ever made of it, or really talked about it. They quietly lived their lives. I mean the term Gay was rarely spoken. I remember my mother referring to Gay Males as a "Man's Man". I wonder how many here has heard that term. I have not heard it myself in at least 40 years. Chanelta
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