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      Found a bug?  Feature not working as it should?  Have a question about how to use the forums, a resource on the site, or the chat rooms?  This is the place to get help.

       

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  2. Issue-Specific Support Forums

    1. Suicide Prevention

      Most transgender people have attempted suicide at least once in their lives. If you have, please lend your support here to those who are having a bad time now. Suicide is never the answer. If you are suicidal, call the Trans Lifeline at (877) 565-8860 in the US or (877) 330-6366 in Canada. In the UK, call the Samaritans free on 116 123, or log in to our live chat room and ask to speak with a crisis moderator.

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    2. Alcohol Abuse Support Forum

      A support forum for those who have problems with alcohol.

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    3. Drug Abuse Support Forum

      A forum to get help and support if you have drug issues.

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    4. Sexual Abuse and Assault Support Forum

      If you have ever been the victim of sexual abuse, molestation, violent sexual assault, or other sexual violation, you will find help and support here.

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    5. Cutting and Self-Harm Support Forum

      Cutting and other forms of self-harm are an epidemic among transgender teens. This is a support and prevention forum to discuss issues related to these topics.

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    6. Eating Disorders Support Forum

      A forum to discuss and get support if you have - or think you have - an eating disorder such as anorexia, bulimia, binge eating disorder, or compulsive over-eating.

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    7. Victims of Hate Crimes and Violence

      This is a forum to discuss hate and violent crimes against transgender people. It is also a place for victims to talk about what happened to them and gain help and support. Nearly 95% of crimes against us are never reported. If you are a victim, please report it here.

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  3. General Transgender Forums

    1. General Forum

      You may discuss any general topic here.  Religion and politics discussions must be held in their appropriate forums only.

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    2. Introductions Forum

      Welcome!  Tell us about yourself!

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    3. Military Veterans and Active-Duty Service Members

      A place for transgender military veterans and active-duty service members to discuss experiences, benefits, and laws that affect us.

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    4. Coming Out

      A place to discuss coming out to family, friends, and co-workers.

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    5. Research Studies

      From time to time, TransPulse approves academic research studies to solicit input from our community.  Information on these studies will be posted here.

       

      Researchers: You MUST ask permission to post your Research Study BEFORE registering.

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    6. Member Poetry

      You may post your transgender-related poetry here.  Any poetry posted must be your own and any copyright held must be held by you.  Copyright infringements will be removed as soon as a moderator becomes aware of it, without notice.

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  4. Transition Support Forums

    1. General Transition Issues

      This is an all-gender presentations forum. Issues discussed here can affect any member of the forum, such as the WPATH Standards of Care. 

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    2. Therapy and Therapists

      Forum to discuss therapy and its effects.

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    3. What Am I? I'm Not Sure.

      New to the site?  Not sure of your identity?  You are not alone.  This is a forum without judgment.  Ask your questions without fear.

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    4. Androgyne and Multigender Forums

      Androgyny is marked by characteristics of both genders resulting in a non-gendered or gender-neutral appearance.

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    5. Crossdresser Discussions

      A discussion group for crossdressers.

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    6. Female to Male (FtM) Discussions

      A place to discuss topics related to transitioning from female to male.

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    7. Male to Female (MtF) Discussions

      A place to discuss issues related to transitioning from male to female.

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    8. Intersex Discussions

      An intersex individual is a person (or individual of any unisex species) who is born with genitalia and/or secondary sexual characteristics of indeterminate sex, or which combine features of both sexes.

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    10. Passing As Your Target Gender

      A discussion forum about passing as your true gender.

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    11. Hormone Replacement Therapy

      A place to discuss hormone replacement therapy and its effects.

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    12. Transition Product Info

      This forum is for information about and reviews of products you use in order to feel more authentic during your transition.  Packers, breast forms, whatever it may be - share your experiences here.  Remember, we do not allow advertisements or sales pitches.

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    13. Real Life Test Discussions

      A place to discuss transition: legal, workplace, name change, driver's license issues, and more. Tips and tricks on getting through a year or two as another gender.

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    14. Transgender Surgeries

      The place to talk about gender affirming surgeries you've had or are planning to have, get physician recommendations, and more.

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    15. Post-Op Discussions

      A place to discuss specific issues or general living after undergoing sex reassignment surgery.

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    16. Transgender Issues

      A forum for discussion of general transgender issues.

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    17. WPATH Standards of Care

      A place to discuss the existing standards of care and how they apply to us.

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    18. Health Issues

      This forum is a place to discuss the various aches, pains, and other complaints we all have.  Please avoid playing doctor or applying your diagnosis or treatment to other members' situations - only a visit to a qualified health care professional can determine the right course of treatment.

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    19. Diet and Exercise

      Many people understand that it is difficult to lose weight after starting hormones.  This a forum to discuss diet and exercise during and after medical transition.

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    20. Fashion

      A place to discuss fashion for all members, including clothing questions, sizing, and more.

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    21. Beauty

      Discuss beauty and cosmetics tips and tricks here.

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    22. Transgender, Transsexual, Crossdresser Teens Forum

      This is the place for any Transgender Teen to post. Topics may be posted only by member aged 13-24, however any member may reply to offer Support. No exchanging personal info, real names, addresses, email or phone numbers.

       

      To post a new message in this forum you must be aged 13 to 24, or a moderator, ages may change later. Any member though may post a PUBLIC reply and we encourage them to give you the benefit of their experience. Sexual issues may not be discussed in this forum.

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  5. Career and Workplace Issues

    1. Job Search

      Searching for work is one of the biggest challenges faced by the transgender community.  Here you can ask for advice on the process.

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    2. Academia

      If you're a student or if you work in the education field, this is the forum to discuss issues surrounding your work.

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    3. Corporate and Office Environments

      This forum is a catch-all for the nine-to-fivers, whether you're an administrative assistant, an executive, or anywhere in between.

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    4. Health Care and Social Services

      If you work in health care, social services, hospice, or another related industry, your workplace questions can be addressed here.

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    5. Law Enforcement and Emergency Response

      Law enforcement and corrections officers, firefighters, EMS employees, dispatchers, and others who work in emergency response can use this forum to discuss their workplace issues.

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    6. Service and Hospitality Industries

      Retail, food service, restaurant, hotel, and other service industry employees can find help with their workplace issues here.

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    7. Other Fields

      If your career field doesn't have a specific category above, you can get advice on workplace issues here.

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  6. News, Activism, Politics, and Events

    1. News

      This is the place to discuss news topics that affect our community. Discussions related to politics and activism should be posted here as well. This is also the place to list upcoming conferences and other gatherings.

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    2. Uplifting News

      A place for news and events that lift the spirits.

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    3. Politics

      Discussion forum for political topics, both general and specific to the transgender community.

      This is a forum that is non-biased/non-partisan and treats every persons position on topics equally. This forum is not aligned to any political party. In today's politics, many ideas are split between and even within all the political parties. Often we find ourselves agreeing on one platform but some topics break our mold. We are here to discuss them in a civil political debate.

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    4. Transgender Activism

      Transgender activism and protests.

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    5. Events, Conferences, and Gatherings

      Events and conferences of interest to the trans community.

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  7. Spirituality

    1. Buddhism

      Buddhism.

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    2. Christianity

      Christianity, all sects.

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    3. Mormonism

      Mormonism.
       

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    4. Hinduism

      Hinduism.

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    5. Islam

      Islam.

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    6. Judaism

      Judaism.

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    7. Two-Spirit

      Two-Spirit faiths, both Native American and other.

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    8. Wicca

      Wicca.

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    9. Other Faiths

      Other religions and spiritual beliefs.
       

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    10. Non-Deistic Spirituality

      Non-deistic spirituality.

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  8. Entertainment

    1. Movies

      Discuss and review movies.  Nothing beyond an "R" rating.

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    2. Television

      What do you - or don't you - like on TV, cable, and streaming services?

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    3. Theatre

      What do you - or don't you - like in or about the Theatre? Are you involved with your local AmDram or a professional Actor?

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    4. Jokes and Humor

      Jokes and humor. Keep it clean. No ethnic or other derogatory jokes. What makes you laugh?

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    5. Games and Gaming

      Board games, card games, video games - you name it.  What do you play?

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    6. Books

      Books and book reviews, favorite authors, favorite genres, and more.

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    7. Stories Written by You

      If you have written a story, or have ideas for a story, that you would like to share with others, then this is the place for them.

      Please remember that they must be PG13 or under.

      If you use other's characters, then a disclaimer MUST be added to the start of the story, something along the lines "I do not claim <character name(s)> as my characters, I'm just borrowing them and receive no income from doing so. All copyrights are freely acknowledged and respected."

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    8. Videos

      A place for your YouTube and other video links.  PG13 or below.  No underwear shots.  People must be fully clothed.  Instructional videos related to the trans community should also be posted here.

      Note that profanity in such videos is not allowed, we wish to remain a clean site, viewable by all. Whilst we accept that once a video has played, many other videos are shown over which you have no control over the content of these.

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    9. Music

      What sort of music do you - or don't you - enjoy?

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    10. Artwork

      This is for your artwork, not someone else's copyrighted art.  Because of bandwidth limits, you should use the insert image option and link to the image on your Photobucket, Imgur, or other storage account, or your own web space.  Images uploaded to the forum will be deleted.  Images must be site friendly / age-suitable or they will be deleted.

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    11. Gadgets and Tech

      This is a place to discuss the ever-changing landscape of technology.

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  • Recent Posts

    • Toli
      Seems like a not impossible dream!  I wish you ALL the luck and joy with that one!  I, sadly, am too old, and work out by myself here. 
    • Pema
      Hi, Stephenie, and welcome.     No need to worry. You don't have to perform anything; just be you. That's really what all of this is about.
    • Pema
      Oh, good! That's extremely helpful.
    • Jessica Louise
      I feel like becoming Jessica could be the key that unlocks my self love if i gain the body i like and become proud of id want to take care of it join a gym maybe there could be people there who would welcome me and accept me for who and what i am then there might be friendships and romantic shenanigans  probably not but a girl can dream right?
    • Toli
      Being human is incredibly hard.    Maybe, instead of using I don't know how to love myself as a stick to punish, maybe you (and also maybe I, I guess, although...) need to learn what it feels like, over time to experience love, so, we know what we are doing?   Obviously, I am having a weird time with therapy trying to teach me about feelings at the moment. Apologies. 
    • Jessica Louise
      I too struggle with being nice to myself except for over indulging on chocolate and cake   i never really felt like a real person and as i never felt confident in my own skin i always believed that nobody else would, who would want to date a loser like me if i cant love myself then i cant expect anyone else to  being human is hard sometimes
    • Toli
      Oh, there is a lot to be said for never having got into all the kinds of trouble I caused myself. Do not be worrying! Typing on line is WAY easier than actually TALKING to people, that is for absolute sure.    Just, for me, on days I feel very rejected by my real life people, I feel like I SHOULD be on my own forever, which makes me feel worse. Because, god forbid that I should be in any way nice to myself, huh!?
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      It was awful and knew I deserved better. Good thing is I found someone better in my life, my current wife Jade whom has been supportive and treats me right
    • Jessica Louise
      I have never been in a romantic relationship so im nearly the 40yo virgin lol i will confess that typing online has been easier for me that in person chats at some stage i will have to take the plunge but for now its enough
    • Toli
      I might, if I didn't have kids!  I feel like I connected with you too, and that is valuable to me.  I do have to speak, because, kids, and during exam seasons, work, but there is no work right now. so I only really speak out loud for therapy (and I am feeling very anxious about that at the moment)  I do usually get to speak to my lovely friend in the USA once a week, but, I missed that this week, and I find video calling to be a bit stressful and sometimes removed from here and now, somehow.  I feel a bit stuck for now, I need to find something properly gainful to do, and meet some people who are physically here, and OMG, I need to find a person. Like, relationship things have been missing to me for some YEARS and this is not how I generally navigate the world.  (don't mind me, turns out sex is a thing I miss more when I am feeling especially sad and isolated - It's lucky really that it's impossible for me, I'd probably freak out if the possibility existed.) 
    • Jessica Louise
      Ha you dont hide in your bedroom all day dreaming of what could be  your not boring to me Toli you reached out to me when i first arrived here and i do enjoy our 'chats' i feel like ive connected with some one and ive been missing that for so long as for speaking ut loud im soo introverted i speak about three or four words a day sometimes
    • Toli
      OH, don't worry, I LIKE talking about someone who is not me.  I am quite boring to me. Truly! And anyway, I came wildly unstick recently, because, turns out, I have NO practise out loud talking about such things, and that means I don't really know how to. 
    • Jessica Louise
      im sorry Toli i didnt mean to turn this into an all about me chat
    • Toli
      AH OK. That's a LOT. I mean, if I were you. I would start with one safe person? They probably would do most of the rest of the work for you?    But, I mean, don't believe me. I don't have ANY extended family since my parents disowned me. I live on my own with a 13 year old (and occasionally a nearly 20 yr old who mostly lives in London.) I grew up with a brother and sister, my sister died in 2022.    The kids' dad died in 2024.    In person adult people are in short supply for me. Probably why I don't worry about coming out before I *do* things,
    • Jessica Louise
      So i still live with my mother i ahve a younger brother whos married and lives the other side of Reading and my younger sister who lives about ten steps down the road with her boyfriend and two kids i have three aunts and an uncle an we all live in the same town every birthday christmas and some easters we all gather and i would feel like the elephant in the room if i came out likee they would all be chatting away and then i show uo and every one goes quiet and strts staring at me to my knowlage we have never had a gay or trans member of the family so i feel like i would be a dark stain on the family as stupid as that is and its hard to judge their willingness to accept me as a woman when they have only known a man
    • Toli
      What family do you have?  What would you lose (and don't forget, some people might be much better about it than you think)  I have amazing online friends and they, and particularly one of them, make my life so much better.  TODAY I am feeling very physically isolated. I feel the need of a physically present person.  (Also, being disowned is potentially a very freeing thing, if only they would actually stop impacting my life) 
    • Pema
      Hi, Alexis. Welcome to TGP. We're happy to have you join us.   I'm sorry for the trials you've been through. Sometimes those are the kinds of events that force us to recognize what truly matters to us - and who we *really* are. I'm glad that you're getting that opportunity now.   Please share or ask anything that you feel is important to you.   Pema
    • Jessica Louise
      its the lack of support i feel i would get thats holding me back at least in my mind the idea that i would come out and then be hit with a barrage of slurs and hate and people talking behind my back and family i dont think i could cope with being disowned mentally or financally although being on my own would give me a certain amount of freedom i would still feel all alone 
    • Toli
      Oh, it's a shame you are so far away, you could bring your fun loving and joy spreading here! I need that today. Also hugs.    I am all about wearing what makes you happy, so that would be fine.    It's all about the other people for me too. Which is so weird because there are SO few of them! 
    • Jessica Louise
      oh shoot i cant imagine how tough that is for you i dont have kids myself so i dont know what that would feel like  you boy is starting his adventure and i would guess this happens to every parent at some point im not sure im helping here really   as for me i have the house to myself today and put on a pair of black denim cut off shorts and a crop top and i was feeling all cute in a pre transition kind of way i decided to lay down and think about my ideal body and the more i thought about it the more i feel like thats what i want but then the bad brain came telling me that people would rather see James the depressed man who feels dead inside with no hopes dreams asperations just an empty husk of a man than see me as Jessica a fun loving free spirit that wants to spread joy and happiness all because i would have to trans my gender to get there lets just say i shed a few tears
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