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  1. Site Help

    1. Forum Questions and Answers

      Found a bug?  Feature not working as it should?  Have a question about how to use the forums, a resource on the site, or the chat rooms?  This is the place to get help.

       

      This is not a forum to ask transition, hormone, or other questions.  It is for questions about the website and technical issues.

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      A list of How To's for our Forums.

       

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  2. Issue-Specific Support Forums

    1. Suicide Prevention

      Most transgender people have attempted suicide at least once in their lives. If you have, please lend your support here to those who are having a bad time now. Suicide is never the answer. If you are suicidal, call the Trans Lifeline at (877) 565-8860 in the US or (877) 330-6366 in Canada. In the UK, call the Samaritans free on 116 123, or log in to our live chat room and ask to speak with a crisis moderator.

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    2. Alcohol Abuse Support Forum

      A support forum for those who have problems with alcohol.

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    3. Drug Abuse Support Forum

      A forum to get help and support if you have drug issues.

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    4. Sexual Abuse and Assault Support Forum

      If you have ever been the victim of sexual abuse, molestation, violent sexual assault, or other sexual violation, you will find help and support here.

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    5. Cutting and Self-Harm Support Forum

      Cutting and other forms of self-harm are an epidemic among transgender teens. This is a support and prevention forum to discuss issues related to these topics.

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    6. Eating Disorders Support Forum

      A forum to discuss and get support if you have - or think you have - an eating disorder such as anorexia, bulimia, binge eating disorder, or compulsive over-eating.

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    7. Victims of Hate Crimes and Violence

      This is a forum to discuss hate and violent crimes against transgender people. It is also a place for victims to talk about what happened to them and gain help and support. Nearly 95% of crimes against us are never reported. If you are a victim, please report it here.

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  3. General Transgender Forums

    1. General Forum

      You may discuss any general topic here.  Religion and politics discussions must be held in their appropriate forums only.

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    2. Introductions Forum

      Welcome!  Tell us about yourself!

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    3. Military Veterans and Active-Duty Service Members

      A place for transgender military veterans and active-duty service members to discuss experiences, benefits, and laws that affect us.

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    4. Coming Out

      A place to discuss coming out to family, friends, and co-workers.

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    5. Research Studies

      From time to time, TransPulse approves academic research studies to solicit input from our community.  Information on these studies will be posted here.

       

      Researchers: You MUST ask permission to post your Research Study BEFORE registering.

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    6. Member Poetry

      You may post your transgender-related poetry here.  Any poetry posted must be your own and any copyright held must be held by you.  Copyright infringements will be removed as soon as a moderator becomes aware of it, without notice.

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  4. Transition Support Forums

    1. General Transition Issues

      This is an all-gender presentations forum. Issues discussed here can affect any member of the forum, such as the WPATH Standards of Care. 

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    2. Therapy and Therapists

      Forum to discuss therapy and its effects.

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    3. What Am I? I'm Not Sure.

      New to the site?  Not sure of your identity?  You are not alone.  This is a forum without judgment.  Ask your questions without fear.

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    4. Androgyne and Multigender Forums

      Androgyny is marked by characteristics of both genders resulting in a non-gendered or gender-neutral appearance.

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    5. Crossdresser Discussions

      A discussion group for crossdressers.

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    6. Female to Male (FtM) Discussions

      A place to discuss topics related to transitioning from female to male.

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    7. Male to Female (MtF) Discussions

      A place to discuss issues related to transitioning from male to female.

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    8. Intersex Discussions

      An intersex individual is a person (or individual of any unisex species) who is born with genitalia and/or secondary sexual characteristics of indeterminate sex, or which combine features of both sexes.

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    10. Passing As Your Target Gender

      A discussion forum about passing as your true gender.

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    11. Hormone Replacement Therapy

      A place to discuss hormone replacement therapy and its effects.

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    12. Transition Product Info

      This forum is for information about and reviews of products you use in order to feel more authentic during your transition.  Packers, breast forms, whatever it may be - share your experiences here.  Remember, we do not allow advertisements or sales pitches.

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    13. Real Life Test Discussions

      A place to discuss transition: legal, workplace, name change, driver's license issues, and more. Tips and tricks on getting through a year or two as another gender.

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    14. Transgender Surgeries

      The place to talk about gender affirming surgeries you've had or are planning to have, get physician recommendations, and more.

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    15. Post-Op Discussions

      A place to discuss specific issues or general living after undergoing sex reassignment surgery.

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    16. Transgender Issues

      A forum for discussion of general transgender issues.

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    17. WPATH Standards of Care

      A place to discuss the existing standards of care and how they apply to us.

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    18. Health Issues

      This forum is a place to discuss the various aches, pains, and other complaints we all have.  Please avoid playing doctor or applying your diagnosis or treatment to other members' situations - only a visit to a qualified health care professional can determine the right course of treatment.

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    19. Diet and Exercise

      Many people understand that it is difficult to lose weight after starting hormones.  This a forum to discuss diet and exercise during and after medical transition.

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    20. Fashion

      A place to discuss fashion for all members, including clothing questions, sizing, and more.

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    21. Beauty

      Discuss beauty and cosmetics tips and tricks here.

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    22. Transgender, Transsexual, Crossdresser Teens Forum

      This is the place for any Transgender Teen to post. Topics may be posted only by member aged 13-24, however any member may reply to offer Support. No exchanging personal info, real names, addresses, email or phone numbers.

       

      To post a new message in this forum you must be aged 13 to 24, or a moderator, ages may change later. Any member though may post a PUBLIC reply and we encourage them to give you the benefit of their experience. Sexual issues may not be discussed in this forum.

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  5. Career and Workplace Issues

    1. Job Search

      Searching for work is one of the biggest challenges faced by the transgender community.  Here you can ask for advice on the process.

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    2. Academia

      If you're a student or if you work in the education field, this is the forum to discuss issues surrounding your work.

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    3. Corporate and Office Environments

      This forum is a catch-all for the nine-to-fivers, whether you're an administrative assistant, an executive, or anywhere in between.

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    4. Health Care and Social Services

      If you work in health care, social services, hospice, or another related industry, your workplace questions can be addressed here.

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    5. Law Enforcement and Emergency Response

      Law enforcement and corrections officers, firefighters, EMS employees, dispatchers, and others who work in emergency response can use this forum to discuss their workplace issues.

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    6. Service and Hospitality Industries

      Retail, food service, restaurant, hotel, and other service industry employees can find help with their workplace issues here.

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    7. Other Fields

      If your career field doesn't have a specific category above, you can get advice on workplace issues here.

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  6. News, Activism, Politics, and Events

    1. News

      This is the place to discuss news topics that affect our community. Discussions related to politics and activism should be posted here as well. This is also the place to list upcoming conferences and other gatherings.

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    2. Uplifting News

      A place for news and events that lift the spirits.

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    3. Politics

      Discussion forum for political topics, both general and specific to the transgender community.

      This is a forum that is non-biased/non-partisan and treats every persons position on topics equally. This forum is not aligned to any political party. In today's politics, many ideas are split between and even within all the political parties. Often we find ourselves agreeing on one platform but some topics break our mold. We are here to discuss them in a civil political debate.

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    4. Transgender Activism

      Transgender activism and protests.

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    5. Events, Conferences, and Gatherings

      Events and conferences of interest to the trans community.

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  7. Spirituality

    1. Buddhism

      Buddhism.

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    2. Christianity

      Christianity, all sects.

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    3. Mormonism

      Mormonism.
       

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    4. Hinduism

      Hinduism.

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    5. Islam

      Islam.

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    6. Judaism

      Judaism.

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    7. Two-Spirit

      Two-Spirit faiths, both Native American and other.

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    8. Wicca

      Wicca.

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    9. Other Faiths

      Other religions and spiritual beliefs.
       

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    10. Non-Deistic Spirituality

      Non-deistic spirituality.

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  8. Entertainment

    1. Movies

      Discuss and review movies.  Nothing beyond an "R" rating.

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    2. Television

      What do you - or don't you - like on TV, cable, and streaming services?

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    3. Theatre

      What do you - or don't you - like in or about the Theatre? Are you involved with your local AmDram or a professional Actor?

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    4. Jokes and Humor

      Jokes and humor. Keep it clean. No ethnic or other derogatory jokes. What makes you laugh?

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    5. Games and Gaming

      Board games, card games, video games - you name it.  What do you play?

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    6. Books

      Books and book reviews, favorite authors, favorite genres, and more.

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    7. Stories Written by You

      If you have written a story, or have ideas for a story, that you would like to share with others, then this is the place for them.

      Please remember that they must be PG13 or under.

      If you use other's characters, then a disclaimer MUST be added to the start of the story, something along the lines "I do not claim <character name(s)> as my characters, I'm just borrowing them and receive no income from doing so. All copyrights are freely acknowledged and respected."

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    8. Videos

      A place for your YouTube and other video links.  PG13 or below.  No underwear shots.  People must be fully clothed.  Instructional videos related to the trans community should also be posted here.

      Note that profanity in such videos is not allowed, we wish to remain a clean site, viewable by all. Whilst we accept that once a video has played, many other videos are shown over which you have no control over the content of these.

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    9. Music

      What sort of music do you - or don't you - enjoy?

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    10. Artwork

      This is for your artwork, not someone else's copyrighted art.  Because of bandwidth limits, you should use the insert image option and link to the image on your Photobucket, Imgur, or other storage account, or your own web space.  Images uploaded to the forum will be deleted.  Images must be site friendly / age-suitable or they will be deleted.

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    11. Gadgets and Tech

      This is a place to discuss the ever-changing landscape of technology.

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    • Lydia77
      Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!   Over the last 11 months since beginning my transition (I'm such baby, but growing daily) my wife has been pebbling me a lot of the ideas, details and similar experiences this booklet shares. I read through it in about 5 hours and I know for certain that if I had read it 12 months ago that I would still be in my small purple closet. For what ever reason today this booklet brought me so much affirmation that many of the doubts that have been trying to take root have blown away like a tumble week.   I will do my best to never lose this link and I hope that if I ever meet another soul in such need as we have all been when we were on that precipice, that I can hand them that link and help them see that tomorrow will be a brighter and healthier new day.   Thank you, Hannah You helped a baby trans know that she's going in the right direction. Bless Be.
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      All the girls in our class (minus the ones out of town on vacations) are having a pool party and sleeping bag  sleepover tomorrow night at 1 of the parents mansions I dunno if thats the proper technical term, but I consider it one. They have staff to wait on them and a cleaner lol. Both parents are lawyers in some big firm in LA.  Its the same family that had an out for the summer pool party for us.  You should have seen the candy supply last time. It was like  a dozen kids Halloweens combined.  They're letting boys come until sundown, then girls only. So my bf Michael will come with me for the pool party part.  The guys have to leave when their staff leaves. I guess they don't want any unsupervised kinky time going on lol. Thats ok with me, its summer so I get privacy all day 😁.  We made up for it today lol. Right as mom left for work this morning, he was at my bedroom window. Kinky breakfast in bed is awesome (no, we're not doing THAT.) We just got back from the skate park to get ready for dinner.  We're cooking tonight for my parents, lasagna.   
    • Toli
      I faffed about for ages choosing mine, and it is weird, and doesn't exist in my own language, but, I still really like hearing it. And I chose it for good reasons   I don't (STILL) use it a lot in the world. because, kids and work are a bit intertwined for me, so, I need to... SOMETHING.    But, also, I notice that I actively AVOID using my given name, so, MOST people don't call me *anything*  which doesn't even feel weird to me. having ANY name is odd to me so far. It's all a work in progress! 
    • Connor FTM
      Hi Cam :) I used to use Discord when I was younger (13-15), and it did help with the loneliness, but boy have I become a loner since then! I think nowadays I like to stick to open social sites, my tiny circle IRL, and the notepad I carry on me haha Still, it's great you've found community there! Happy for you!
    • Toli
      Hey @Cam_cammy_cameron    It's awesome to meet you. Welcome, settle in, and get stuck in to sharing your opinions, knowledge and experience, it's all valuable.   
    • Connor FTM
      Honestly I'd just wait until it feels fully "like your name" (whatever that may entail for you) and once it does, go out and try it a bit more publicly. When I first changed my name socially, years ago, I was still closeted to my family, but I tried it out online until it felt correct enough to go by it with some friends I knew IRL. Different details, but similar premise If it feels right right now, then go for it now. Worst that can happen is you end up not liking it long-term and have to go back to the drawing board
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      Hi there Cam! Nice to meet you! 
    • Cam_cammy_cameron
      Hi Conner! It's nice to meet you! I am 18 so similar age. I am nonbinary and it is very lonely. I joined some discord servers that are for trans/nonbinary people and that has helped. 
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      Hi, Cam.  Nice to meet you.   How long you should wait until using your new name more widely is entirely in your hands.  It is whatever you are comfortable with.  If your family were all on board with you in using it, that might give you confidence to tell more people.  On the other hand, with them apparently being ambivalent, Having others using your new name might convince family members that you mean it.  Or you may need time for everyone, including yourself, to absorb the new name.  There are no rules: it is up to you to decide.
    • Cam_cammy_cameron
      I decided to tell close family and friends to use my chosen name, Cam, and my pronouns, they/them. My mom was very supportive! but my dad not so much. And my sisters seem indifferent. My friends are supportive. I guess im wondering how long do I take with this new name before using it everywhere? (assuming I love it) 
    • Cam_cammy_cameron
      Hi my name is Cam! I am 18, use they/them pronouns, and am from North America. I am agender and in the LGBTQ+ community in other ways as well. Looking to connect with others and possibly make friends!
    • Toli
      Hey @Max   Happy Thursday.    I am mostly confused because every day feels like a weekend now. The kids did most of my errands today.  I cooked dinner. And put the dishwasher on. And finally folded and stored the winter blankets...   Oh my god, I am in fact the most boring person ever.... Sorry. Thinking of you though.
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      This makes me feel old. I thought it was like, the most famous piece of of clarinet music ever....
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      "Stranger On The Shore" is one of the songs I've learned.  My young music teacher had never heard it, but loves it now, too.   Carolyn Marie
    • Connor FTM
      Hi! Thank you for the warm welcome :) I hope I can meet some cool people here! I've known that I'm trans for almost 9 years IIRC, and I've been out for 6 years, so I guess I've always had that level of self-awareness? If I'd known what being trans was any younger I probably would have realized sooner; I've kind of always felt this way, I just did not understand what being trans meant then (I thought it meant you woke up one day as the opposite sex--God I wish that was it!) And thanks for the compliment on my profile picture! I love The Legend of Zelda series a lot if it wasn't obvious haha :)
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      Huge fan of your "link" profile picture as well haha
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      Hey @Connor FTM! Welcome To the forums. Youll find a range of people to talk to of different backgrounds and ages !   I myself am 32 and male, gender questioning and a new crossdresser so ancient compared to you haha !   You've done well to be so understanding of who you are at such a young age. I didnt even start questioning this stuff until a year or so ago.   You'll find these forums are really good for sharing experiences, asking questions or just meeting people with similar stories, experiences etc.   Feel free to open up topics or comment on existing ones 😁
    • Jamma
      Hey @Connor FTM! Welcome To the forums. Youll find a range of people to talk to of different backgrounds and ages !   I myself am 32 and male, gender questioning and a new crossdresser so ancient compared to you haha !   You've done well to be so understanding of who you are at such a young age. I didnt even start questioning this stuff until a year or so ago.   You'll find these forums are really good for sharing experiences, asking questions or just meeting people with similar stories, experiences etc.   Feel free to open up topics or comment on existing ones 😁
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