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    1. Forum Questions and Answers

      Found a bug?  Feature not working as it should?  Have a question about how to use the forums, a resource on the site, or the chat rooms?  This is the place to get help.

       

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  2. Issue-Specific Support Forums

    1. Suicide Prevention

      Most transgender people have attempted suicide at least once in their lives. If you have, please lend your support here to those who are having a bad time now. Suicide is never the answer. If you are suicidal, call the Trans Lifeline at (877) 565-8860 in the US or (877) 330-6366 in Canada. In the UK, call the Samaritans free on 116 123, or log in to our live chat room and ask to speak with a crisis moderator.

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    2. Alcohol Abuse Support Forum

      A support forum for those who have problems with alcohol.

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    3. Drug Abuse Support Forum

      A forum to get help and support if you have drug issues.

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    4. Sexual Abuse and Assault Support Forum

      If you have ever been the victim of sexual abuse, molestation, violent sexual assault, or other sexual violation, you will find help and support here.

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    5. Cutting and Self-Harm Support Forum

      Cutting and other forms of self-harm are an epidemic among transgender teens. This is a support and prevention forum to discuss issues related to these topics.

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    6. Eating Disorders Support Forum

      A forum to discuss and get support if you have - or think you have - an eating disorder such as anorexia, bulimia, binge eating disorder, or compulsive over-eating.

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    7. Victims of Hate Crimes and Violence

      This is a forum to discuss hate and violent crimes against transgender people. It is also a place for victims to talk about what happened to them and gain help and support. Nearly 95% of crimes against us are never reported. If you are a victim, please report it here.

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  3. General Transgender Forums

    1. General Forum

      You may discuss any general topic here.  Religion and politics discussions must be held in their appropriate forums only.

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    2. Introductions Forum

      Welcome!  Tell us about yourself!

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    3. Military Veterans and Active-Duty Service Members

      A place for transgender military veterans and active-duty service members to discuss experiences, benefits, and laws that affect us.

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    4. Coming Out

      A place to discuss coming out to family, friends, and co-workers.

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    5. Research Studies

      From time to time, TransPulse approves academic research studies to solicit input from our community.  Information on these studies will be posted here.

       

      Researchers: You MUST ask permission to post your Research Study BEFORE registering.

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    6. Member Poetry

      You may post your transgender-related poetry here.  Any poetry posted must be your own and any copyright held must be held by you.  Copyright infringements will be removed as soon as a moderator becomes aware of it, without notice.

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  4. Transition Support Forums

    1. General Transition Issues

      This is an all-gender presentations forum. Issues discussed here can affect any member of the forum, such as the WPATH Standards of Care. 

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    2. Therapy and Therapists

      Forum to discuss therapy and its effects.

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    3. What Am I? I'm Not Sure.

      New to the site?  Not sure of your identity?  You are not alone.  This is a forum without judgment.  Ask your questions without fear.

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    4. Androgyne and Multigender Forums

      Androgyny is marked by characteristics of both genders resulting in a non-gendered or gender-neutral appearance.

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    5. Crossdresser Discussions

      A discussion group for crossdressers.

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    6. Female to Male (FtM) Discussions

      A place to discuss topics related to transitioning from female to male.

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    7. Male to Female (MtF) Discussions

      A place to discuss issues related to transitioning from male to female.

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    8. Intersex Discussions

      An intersex individual is a person (or individual of any unisex species) who is born with genitalia and/or secondary sexual characteristics of indeterminate sex, or which combine features of both sexes.

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    10. Passing As Your Target Gender

      A discussion forum about passing as your true gender.

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    11. Hormone Replacement Therapy

      A place to discuss hormone replacement therapy and its effects.

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    12. Transition Product Info

      This forum is for information about and reviews of products you use in order to feel more authentic during your transition.  Packers, breast forms, whatever it may be - share your experiences here.  Remember, we do not allow advertisements or sales pitches.

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    13. Real Life Test Discussions

      A place to discuss transition: legal, workplace, name change, driver's license issues, and more. Tips and tricks on getting through a year or two as another gender.

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    14. Transgender Surgeries

      The place to talk about gender affirming surgeries you've had or are planning to have, get physician recommendations, and more.

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    15. Post-Op Discussions

      A place to discuss specific issues or general living after undergoing sex reassignment surgery.

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    16. Transgender Issues

      A forum for discussion of general transgender issues.

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    17. WPATH Standards of Care

      A place to discuss the existing standards of care and how they apply to us.

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    18. Health Issues

      This forum is a place to discuss the various aches, pains, and other complaints we all have.  Please avoid playing doctor or applying your diagnosis or treatment to other members' situations - only a visit to a qualified health care professional can determine the right course of treatment.

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    19. Diet and Exercise

      Many people understand that it is difficult to lose weight after starting hormones.  This a forum to discuss diet and exercise during and after medical transition.

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    20. Fashion

      A place to discuss fashion for all members, including clothing questions, sizing, and more.

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    21. Beauty

      Discuss beauty and cosmetics tips and tricks here.

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    22. Transgender, Transsexual, Crossdresser Teens Forum

      This is the place for any Transgender Teen to post. Topics may be posted only by member aged 13-24, however any member may reply to offer Support. No exchanging personal info, real names, addresses, email or phone numbers.

       

      To post a new message in this forum you must be aged 13 to 24, or a moderator, ages may change later. Any member though may post a PUBLIC reply and we encourage them to give you the benefit of their experience. Sexual issues may not be discussed in this forum.

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  5. Career and Workplace Issues

    1. Job Search

      Searching for work is one of the biggest challenges faced by the transgender community.  Here you can ask for advice on the process.

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    2. Academia

      If you're a student or if you work in the education field, this is the forum to discuss issues surrounding your work.

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    3. Corporate and Office Environments

      This forum is a catch-all for the nine-to-fivers, whether you're an administrative assistant, an executive, or anywhere in between.

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    4. Health Care and Social Services

      If you work in health care, social services, hospice, or another related industry, your workplace questions can be addressed here.

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    5. Law Enforcement and Emergency Response

      Law enforcement and corrections officers, firefighters, EMS employees, dispatchers, and others who work in emergency response can use this forum to discuss their workplace issues.

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    6. Service and Hospitality Industries

      Retail, food service, restaurant, hotel, and other service industry employees can find help with their workplace issues here.

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    7. Other Fields

      If your career field doesn't have a specific category above, you can get advice on workplace issues here.

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  6. News, Activism, Politics, and Events

    1. News

      This is the place to discuss news topics that affect our community. Discussions related to politics and activism should be posted here as well. This is also the place to list upcoming conferences and other gatherings.

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    2. Uplifting News

      A place for news and events that lift the spirits.

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    3. Politics

      Discussion forum for political topics, both general and specific to the transgender community.

      This is a forum that is non-biased/non-partisan and treats every persons position on topics equally. This forum is not aligned to any political party. In today's politics, many ideas are split between and even within all the political parties. Often we find ourselves agreeing on one platform but some topics break our mold. We are here to discuss them in a civil political debate.

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    4. Transgender Activism

      Transgender activism and protests.

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    5. Events, Conferences, and Gatherings

      Events and conferences of interest to the trans community.

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  7. Spirituality

    1. Buddhism

      Buddhism.

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    2. Christianity

      Christianity, all sects.

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      Hinduism.

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    7. Two-Spirit

      Two-Spirit faiths, both Native American and other.

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      Wicca.

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      Other religions and spiritual beliefs.
       

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      Non-deistic spirituality.

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  8. Entertainment

    1. Movies

      Discuss and review movies.  Nothing beyond an "R" rating.

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    2. Television

      What do you - or don't you - like on TV, cable, and streaming services?

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    3. Theatre

      What do you - or don't you - like in or about the Theatre? Are you involved with your local AmDram or a professional Actor?

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    4. Jokes and Humor

      Jokes and humor. Keep it clean. No ethnic or other derogatory jokes. What makes you laugh?

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    5. Games and Gaming

      Board games, card games, video games - you name it.  What do you play?

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      Books and book reviews, favorite authors, favorite genres, and more.

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    8. Videos

      A place for your YouTube and other video links.  PG13 or below.  No underwear shots.  People must be fully clothed.  Instructional videos related to the trans community should also be posted here.

      Note that profanity in such videos is not allowed, we wish to remain a clean site, viewable by all. Whilst we accept that once a video has played, many other videos are shown over which you have no control over the content of these.

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      What sort of music do you - or don't you - enjoy?

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    11. Gadgets and Tech

      This is a place to discuss the ever-changing landscape of technology.

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  • Recent Posts

    • rhonda74
      If you suspect someone being a predator, contact your local police department. If the individual you have explained about attends a group meeting in - person, he would be banned from the building, not only just for in - person meeting but also includes virtual online groups as well, blocked friend invites on social media. If the person refuse to leave then he would be escorted by the police.
    • VickySGV
      I will completely echo @Carolyn Marie's advice to you about the documentation and reporting of the person's behavior to the appropriate authorities.  My suggestion also is to find a counseling center that deals with what you described happened to you.  LGBTQ Community Centers are a very good source of contact for trained professionals including actual legal services to help with such things as stay-away police help if you feel the abuser is a threat to you,  The Centers will also very likely have peer support groups where you can meet others that have been in your situation.  I actually have some young (below 60 year olds-- I am older than that) friends entering the Behavioral Health fields who are Trans and came to the field because of their own young lives of abuse.   As to this site in particular, we do guard and monitor our members for interpersonal safety.  We do not allow people looking for sexual relations to join, and our rules are strict about the interaction of adults and the younger members of this site.  Administrators like Carolyn and myself and our moderators are trained on things to look for and monitor in relations between our members.  Our record here for the most part is very good on safety that way.  You may always contact any Staff member if something makes you feel uncomfortable.  
    • Carolyn Marie
      @Katy, welcome to Trans Pulse.  What you are describing is very serious behavior, and, as you said, some of it is criminal behavior.  We are very diligent here about watching out for predators, fraudsters, fakers and other ne'er do-wells.  I won't describe all of our methods, but they are very successful.   My suggestion to you is to write down everything you can about his potentially illegal behavior, especially that involving underage girls, and include every detail you can think of.  If he has images on his phone or tablet or computer of underage girls in "sexualized" situations, be sure to include that.  Take all of that information to a police agency in your state that has the resources for a sexual predator task force or unit and let them start an investigation.  If you know or suspect that some of the victims are from out of state, take the information to the F.B.I.    If you want to discuss details privately, you are welcome to PM me.  I am not an officer, but I was one years ago, so I know of what I speak.  If he is currently engaged in these activities, it is imperative that you let authorities know, in order to keep young victims from being hurt.  Thank you for asking about this, and thank you for being concerned enough to let us know.   Carolyn Marie
    • mejc
      So your experience sounds a lot like mine. I'm 52, married with 2 kids. I adore my family but acknowledge I'm a bi crossdresser. I knew I was different ever since I can remember.    When I was a child I wanted to wear the little girl clothes I saw in the catalogs.  I admired the woman and thought they were beautiful.  I knew little boys don't feel like this typically so I kept it to myself.  It never went away.   Crossdressed in my adolescents, mom's clothes when nobody was around. High school did the same and would wear panties or panthose under my clothes.     Crossdressed in 1st marriage in her clothes.  Then divorced and did it as a single man. Remarried, wife knows I've done it in the past, still do it today with my own clothes I hide. I wear panties or something that works be considered for gay men daily.    I often wonder if I should have either transitioned after high school or decided to live a crossdressing life and dated both and never married. It's odd because I don't hate being male but I miss not being female and feel lost between.     So I understand how it's not clear cut for you. It isn't for me either. Add in I'm attracted to men as well and it further complicates it. I feel I was born wrong at times and should have been a tomboy fitness girl.  Talking about it helps that why I'm on this site. Therapy helped a little at times but I'm so in-between no clear answer ever was presented to me.    Hope this helps
    • Katy
      hello! I am a gender non conforming person who hasn't really interacted with the transgender community much and I would like to ask a question. How are predators dealt with in the community? I suppose I just need a peace of mind after something that happened to me. I was groomed by my ex when I was a minor and he has done so to other minors as an adult. He is not trans (goes by he-him) and thinks it's weird to wear girl clothing but displays himself online as a girl and sometimes uses that idenity in real life. I tried to be very supportive of him in this but he was highly abusive and kept using his idenity as a weapon. Like to be in changing areas or see naked images of girls who didn't consent to be sexualized and then do perverted things. He also sexualizes the transgender community and has a warped sense of feminity where he sees AFABs as property and all. He is still doing illegal and messed up things to this day and I am terrified that he will try and get close to more girls and exploit them >< So my question to you guys is how are these individuals treated here? do their identities not get accepted as real, do they get accepted but ostracized, is there a forum/list to raise awareness of potential predators? It would make me feel a lot better to know if there's something I can do about him or if other people try to keep the community clean of those folk. I don't really have an opinion on it myself because I value the perspective of you all first before doing anything
    • April Marie
      You are such an inspiration, Vidanjali.
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      Successful meditation workshop I taught today 😌🙏
    • Vidanjali
      Good luck to you @Wisp. Coming out can definitely be stressful. But it does get easier. Every time you come out to someone, you're also affirming yourself to yourself. In that sense, you're also coming out to yourself each time. Each time it gets more real because you're putting it out there. But guess what - you also get stronger and it gets easier with practice and time. Little by little you become more confident and self-assured. Someday, you'll be able to just say it in conversation matter-of-factly when relevant and safe. But again, just like you said, you cannot know the future. So it's little steps that take you further into being more yourself. And while you cannot know the future, you are taking those steps toward affirming yourself which will shape your future. So bravo to you. I'll leave you with one more thought. I recall Karamo Brown of Queer Eye said that coming out should more rightly be thought of as letting in. That is, you're inviting people who are important to you to know you on a deeper level. That's their privilege and your gift to them. 
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    • Vidanjali
      Hi & welcome @Wisp! This is a special community, very supportive, uplifting, and deep thinking. Very glad to meet you & look forward to learning more about you.
    • Willow
      Well, I hope the Foxes are enjoying the Henhouse (aka fancy top floor suite in a hotel). I’m thinking no news is good news on this one.  We will have to hear all about.   @KymmieL when is your first proctoring session?  From your earlier description it sounded like you only worked when there was a test that required a proctor.  Or did I get that wrong?  Get your engine for your Buick yet?  Is this a restore and sell, race or a just to drive to car shows restoration?   We got rain lastnight but not the severe storms others have been getting.  We are actually in a drought.  I’m hoping nature’s idea of fixing that isn’t a hurricane.  We don’t need that.
    • Carolyn Marie
      Welcome to Trans Pulse, @Wisp!  You made a good choice by joining us, and I hope you find the forums helpful and our members friendly.  Please look around and post wherever you like.  If you need support, we'll be there for you.   HUGS   Carolyn Marie
    • MariChelan
      i did my name change a couple days ago :) very happy about that. it was a very busy day and i also had to work yesterday, but today i'm off work. im glad i finally got around to it. my friend went along with me since i was nervous which meant a lot to me, i haven't had anyone do something for me like that before
    • Carolyn Marie
      Mr. Trump has been a godsend for liberal parties and politicians all over the world, except those already under the totalitarian thumb.  I think it may even affect Germany, where backlash against the AfD is growing, in part based on support for the AfD from Vance and Trump.   Carolyn Marie
    • Wisp
      So, I'm still kind of in the closet it. I've come out to my best friend, and she was super supportive, as I knew she would be. I've learned that coming out can be 𝘴𝘶𝘱𝘦𝘳 stressful! I'd heard that it is, but I'd never thought I'd go through it myself. But here we are. I've of course gotten my friend's full support, but that's now's the bigger challenge: coming out to my family. I only plan to come out to my closer family members, at least until I start feeling more confident 'n stuff, but it's less of that I'm going to do it and more of 𝘩𝘰𝘸 I'm going to do it. I'll probably write letters. I live with my parents, but I have bad anxiety, and I don't think I'd be able to do it in person. But I also don't think I'm gonna come out to my parents first, I'm going to come out to my older brother first. I'm going to tell him over text, on his day off of work (Tuesday). I already have something written out. I wish I could see the future and automatically know how he's going to react, but I can't, so really I can only hope it goes well. We have a decently good relationship, so I hope he'll be at the very least open minded.   I don't think I need tips, though if anyone thinks they have any useful advice, I wouldn't mind taking it. I guess I just needed a place to rant. Document my progress. I'll update on how it goes when I tell him. Have a good day/night.
    • MirandaB
      Good afternoon, morning thread!   My local library did their annual fundraiser which included a 'silent auction'. One of the items was a spray tan/makeover/photoshoot. I bid once, then twice, and won. (I usually donate to the library since I used it so much, but hadn't for a while, so nice little bonus).    I've actually done the spray tan at the same establishment as the one that was won, and was glad to see that the photographer's portfolio categories included one called "Pride". No idea when it will happen, but should be fun. 
    • April Marie
      Hi, Wisp! Welcome to TGP!! You'll find lots of information and many, wonderful people here. Most of all, you're in a safe space and among people who accept you for who you are. Wander around, ask questions and jump in where you're comfortable.   Take some time to read through our Community Rules that may answer some of your questions about what's permissible to post. Also, there's a forum for teens where you might find more info and people your age who can help and provide community.   Best wishes on your journey!
    • Wisp
      Hi, I'm new here, and figured I'd introduce myself.   My name is currently Wisp (though that may be changed in the future) and I'm a transmasc guy (He/him pronouns) in my early teens. I've been looking for a support group since I discovered that I'm trans, so I was certainly happy to find this place and be able to join! I don't really know what I can share in this forum, so I'll keep it short for now and leave it there. Thanks!
    • VickySGV
      Congratulations on the good sense exhibited there. 
    • Jaye
      That is great MarieChelan that you have made that next step in your coming out !  Congratulations !!
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